I had said from the start I didn't want this causing problems in his new relationship, suppose it's a different story now that I know the relationship isn't as new as I thought it was. You're right, he set himself up for this, so it's up to him to sort out his problem's in his relationship, after all it's not really my problem at all. I've got enough going on now. I held out my olive branch to her. I'm staying out of it now.
I think right now everyone around you is still figuring it out and adjusting. Given the circumstances I will be very surprised if the father of your baby and the gf stay together. His having sex with you early in his relationship with her might not have been a deal breaker but the prospect of a child may well be. You will probably do well to just keep out of that right now. You tried to take the high road but if she isn't open to that it will be on him to deal with it. He set himself up for this, let him sort it out.
Very good question. But going by the way things are I have no idea what any one would call the whole situation.
But what if you don't stay angry?
Hi WC. Thanks for merging those threads. They are much more easier to read. I think it would be better to name the thread So Angry. So that it's not mistaken for an older thread. Thanks
Hi Sweetie, I've merged 6 of your threads into one titled "Would I be looked at differently", I think this will make it easierto read and understand what is going on. You are dealing with a lot and will be experiencing many emotions and trials and joys with your pregnancy.This makes it more coherent like a diary than separate concerns. Otherwise people who haven't been following what is going on are more likely to make responses that really don't make sense. Let me know if you would like a different thread title.
