hes afraid of getting pregnant so young even tho i am on birth control...he tels me he wants to and he loves but h dont wnt it to be the relatioship.

We hear things that make it sound like guys are always into sex and will do just about anything to get it - but that isn't always true. Some of them have a real problem with intimacy and are reluctant to get close, some are scared of being hurt and sometimes you never can figure it out. What does he say about it?

hes the same age as me...idk if hes shy cuz it wouldnt make sense weve had sex alt and its just now becoming a problem for him...sorry for all the contradictions and questions and freaking out...hes been avoiding of having sex ever since he brought me close and i dont understand it. thnx for listening

That seem kind of odd. He must be quite a young man if he doesn't want sex in the relationship. Could he just be shy about it?

ok well idk ive nver been able to do anythng for myself masterbating..an yes ur right bout the orgasm thing am
nd he dont wanna have sex cuz it mite take over the relationship..ive been with him for a long time. im emotional because its wat i wamt and he dont agree..and i want it so bad..i do use contreception control