"LOL'S That's like me saying I am going to start the polites ball and oops I forget the next day, it's called wait until it becomes a habit" What becomes a habit - forgetting the next day? LMAO - that's generally what I do.
LOL'S That's like me saying I am going to start the polites ball and oops I forget the next day, it's called wait until it becomes a habit
Not trying to change him, just supporting positive changes he is choosing to make. The surgeon ordered him to quit smoking, quit drinking and lose weight -all things I had wanted to see happen. We had talked about his smoking and how sensitive I am. He was trying to keep from doing it close to me, which I appreciated bit it still permeates him. Now I am getting what I wanted without having asked him. I just left it to other powers to create, allowing me to be supportive and loving while he does it. When I am open, things flow. I just have to quit blocking and take action to support it. LOL Miy own worst enemy.
It is nice isn't it Now witchy woman don't ya go trying to change too much in him But, how fantastic that he is willing to, view your side of life and walk with it. T was "chemistry" your not looking for that, that is part of it this time only x
Yes, he makes an effort for me. He's agreed to get some sweats and stretch with me. Who knows maybe I'll even get him to start some yoga soon. He has a damaged disk between his 6 & 7 vertebra (tail bone) and has to be careful though. Doesn't seem to negatively affect his kundalini, thankfully. It's taken a little time but we are getting in sync. Not the instant high level connection there was with T, but there is a potential for it to become deep I think. He is still grasping what I am. I don't fit his religious cosmology and he doesn't know quite what to think about a pagan/witchy woman. Of course he isn't really what he thinks he is in those terms. He doesn't really understand the belief system he claims to follow, LOL Its a slow education process. Sometimes I'm not quite sure how to handle just being treated lovingly - haven't had a lot of that in my life but I think I could get used to it.
hahaha, oh I'm sorry your craving but what a sacrifice he better and it appears he is, finally someone not selfish, sacrificing FOR YOU.. X
I'm a former smoker. I know how difficult it can be to quit. He smokes 40 a day, has cut back to 20. When I'm with him he smokes very little. They won't schedule surgery until he has gone 3 months without a cigarette. He's supposed to lose weight too. All at the same time! I'm craving my dark, rich, smooth chocolate...
lol's...man that's alot of chocolates I'm thinking the longer he's around you the less stressed he's going to be and then he'll find it easier, plus surgery, well he has to recover and so all it takes is 2 days with no nicotine, and he can actually go from there, if he's game, tell him to do it on the day of surgery seeing as he has no choice, and see the difference, knowing that the little Monster can't get to him anymore. You know what I hate about smoking the most? When you have one, your brain 15 mins after, says more, I need more nicotine,and so you have one, and then it does it to you again and you go WT did I smoke that for when it just makes me want another one I'm trying to get my head around stopping myself, although I'm 20 a day.
So far, so good. They are alway so sweet to you at first but this one is a little different. He really is more interested in me happy and pleasured than himself. Quite a contrast! LOL He's off to a slow start quitting smoking but has to to get a back surgery. I made a big sacrifice to be supportive and put a little more pressure on - I've given up my Dove Dark Chocolate Promises until he quits. I have a two bag a week habit to match his two packs a day. I handed him my very last one and told him to let me know when I get to buy more. I'm really want him to quit! It makes my eyes burn and I can smell it on him. I'm doing my best to keep his hands, mind and other things distracted for m it. LOL
How's WC's new life going
