Oh my I'm so tired. The young man upstairs plays guitar with freinds late and get up early to go ski and comes and goes so noisily. The older woman next door works an early shift and is up at 3 am these days. I may soon have you beat in the lack of sleep dept!

Sure I would Luv, you're worth a million girl!
Go for it!

Have to give this avatar business some consideration....Would you buy, I'm shy? LOL

I'm getting tired of looking at that "?" as your avatar, when you going to give us a sneak preview, you have to be pretty all the others here are pretty, you have a beautiful soul I know that!

Send you ginger bread thoughts!

Make some for me will ya! ha!

When twp people come together they should maintain some autonomy, keeo their individuality but they also have to blend to a degree. They should lift each other up. Not lock each other out

I can imagine WC when most of your past will be settled by the last experience it will be 1 huge load off of your shoulders, a big weight will be lifted, those things can drag us down even in the best of spirits, do they not?

Does not 2 worlds coming together make the 1, I mean you said it your self, you balance 1 another, neither by your world alone or his. So, if one lives in their world only or the others only then I don't see it working, for anyone in General. I know what you mean, don't take me wrong. But as for me if I was to live wholly in my world then I can't see having that true fulfillment in a relationship. Am I making sense? No, not me! ah,lol

May have already lost it. The last couple years I've spent some time thinking about what I want and need in a relationship, finding someone who is on the same page sexually, spiritually(I'm not mainstream) and in temperment isn't easy. I have a long history of trying to plug into their world instead of living fully in mine with someone. I put it out to the universe and it delivered. I think he's scared to death of being hurt. So he's on again, off again. I'm seriously being driven nuts. I can deal with all the rest, it's the past needing some settling. Sometimes I just know. And I know this is right for both of us, if we let it be. We are each so much more together that apart. We enrich, challenge and balance each other. But he's locked in an old script, I'm waiting to see if it can be rewritten. Have to keep breathing.

Sounds Fun, I think I'll join ya,ha,lol