Been meaning to send you an email.I'm glad to hear you are getting the finances clear, that's a big step. I know it's difficult and perhaps a little scary but you will be so much happier once you've had a little time on your own. One day wake up and WOW all this stress is gone!
Finally Free ! I have cleared away all financial ties How are you ?
Really that's all you can do, wish him well and say fare thee well. To be treating you so shabbily while ill and depending on you says a lot about him. You certainly deserve better than that. Reminds me of my exhusband after I saw him through all his health and unemployment issues, telling me I didn't do enough. Some people deserve to be alone. WE deserve much better than we've gotten! This is the year to start getting it.
OH WC i feel so bad for you.... yes let go of the stresss it does horrible things to your body. Yes I have been on my own since Nov. I have been here in my old house for the last week- he has been sick and in hospital. He is home now and I have been looking after things with his daughter and the house. I went to the emerg with him- at one point he was telling me off and telling me all these horrible things about me. It hurt my feelings but it reminded me why we are paddeling the boat we are in I have got some of the financial papers worked out and got my name off the majority of our joint assets. Its been a slow process and i wish him all the best and happiness.
I'm focusing on getting trained for this new work - he is helping me learn what I need to know and making sure I have all the tools and equipment I need, as my trainer is a bit scattered. I have other areas of my like to work on too. Since all the stress with this I've started getting hot flushes, one day I didn't have them and the next - Wham! So I have to let go of the stress, it's messing me up. How are you doing? Are you on your own now?
as for me i'm still sorting out the mess called me lil life. Its all good in fact what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.... these past 6 months has shown me just how strong, emotinally , mentally i am. I"m proud of myself..... my life may not look that great to others but I couldn't be happier in some ways.
well WildChild it was great while it lasted but you wanted more and he wasn't ready. You are a great gal with your stuff together..... You have had so much heartache and trials over the years.... you'll come out on top this year!
I'm ok, I miss the relationship I had but we are freinds and likely to stay freinds. I guess that's a good thing. Still some heartache.
hi yeah i'm holding up - life is crazy some days good crazy some days bad crazy How are you doing this week ?
Hi there Beautiful! I was so happy to see your name pop up today. I have been in the slough of despondency but have gotten out of it. How are you holding up?
