i dont know what to do ive been with my husband for 9 years and married for 3 we have a wonderful 6 yr old son. i just found out my husband has been cheating on me with a co worker shes a older women. he says he felt he needed love when it all started he says i wasnt there for him when he needed me the most.. he wants us to work things out and im willing to for my son and me i love him with all my heart but im confused what if he does it again or what if its not over with the older lady i need help