Thread: No sex drive

thankyou, I will write a letter and hope it helps with my feelings etc. I think he does sense my pain and yes i do understand that this may effect affection given to me.

I am having problems before my periods now with going totally irrational, I get over anxious, worry, cannot sleep and get IBS all just before my period, I am SCARED as I was too worried about a new job I had found and now I am jobless again. I feel all this is linked to my hormones, I had bllod tests that were ok and going to see the doc tomorrow, I cannot go on like this. I think I am depressed at the moment.

Thanks, it has been a hard road to travel and I just havnt know how to deal with it but will try make the most of my life without children. I think I may have become depressed cos it is hard to deal with and its not going to be easy. I suppose its the loss Im grieving and now I can only just recognize this writing it!!!!!!! when that is a breakthrough! I just must remember to pick myself up when I get down. I dont think the other irrational stuff i am having is related though, and I dont need it, I have let a job go and now I am trying to pick up the pieces!!!!!!! does anyone know if this can happen before the menopause? thanks