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    I was very excited when you started this thread and was hopeful that the WH members and visitors would share their stories. It is so important that women educate themselves about hormone imbalance, peri-menopause and menopause.

    My hormone imbalance started when I was 37, estrogen dominance (unopposed estrogen) wreaked havoc on my left ovary and left breast. I suffered with multiple cysts that came in clusters of 3, both on the ovary and breast. The cysts on my ovary would grow until they ruptured and then I would deal with 20-30 days of non-stop bleeding. At the time I was unaware of what was happening to my body, and too busy to ask questions.

    Never once did my doctor suggest the cysts could be caused by a hormone imbalance. I take full responsibility for not being educated. At 37, I would have never entertained the idea that I was having hormone issues. This continued for 2+ years. During this time I had 2 ectopic pregnancies, 2 breast surgeries (cancer scares), and more cysts than I care to remember.

    My wakeup call:

    The second ectopic pregnancy could not be confirmed by ultrasound, so the doctor took the wait and watch approach. This approach landed me in emergency surgery 2 weeks later with a ruptured fallopian tube. The loss of my fallopian tube was devastating, it was my last chance to have another child.

    The on call surgeon for whatever reason requested my medical history and took the time to actually read it, in depth. He spoke to my husband after surgery and gave him a referral to a specialist for follow up. He told my husband he believed I had a severe hormone imbalance and I needed to address it right away.

    A new beginning:

    Blood tests confirmed estrogen dominance (unopposed estrogen) and the suggested treatment was synthetic birth control pills or HRT. Not acceptable, I've never taken BCPs and was not interested. A few doctors later, I found one willing to hear me out. My plan was to start making changes to my diet and lifestyle, prescription medication was not an option for me, personal choice.
    My doctor (MD) checked my hormone levels every 6 months. Within 6 months my hormone levels were back in the normal range. Ovarian and breast cysts were gone and I have been cyst free for 7+ years.

    Dietary changes made:

    - No stimulants (refined sugar, caffeine, etc...) there are many more but these were the two that my body reacted to the most.

    - No alcohol - Alcohol equals hot flashes, for me.

    - Added healthy fats - 35-40% of my daily caloric intake is from fat. Eating healthy fats make you healthy, not fat.

    - Raw vitamins and minerals - I try to maintain a diet that is 70-80% raw.

    - Added raw D3 supplement - I have an ongoing issue with maintaining healthy vitamin D levels.

    - I eat 2 meals a day, no snacks in between. I'm 5'7 and weigh 135lbs, not starving.

    - Filtered water all day long

    Lifestyle changes:

    - My health and well-being is my top priority

    - Quit smoking

    - Changed my daily fitness routine

    - I try to get 8 hours of sleep - not always successful.

    Up until about 4 months ago I had never used any "hormone" supplements and was successful in treating my hormone imbalance. I'm 10 years into this journey and after experiencing some tingling/itching in my left breast and pain in my left ovary during ovulation, I had my levels checked. Blood tests came back normal, but I know my body, my estrogen was high.

    I made the decision to try some natural progesterone cream. After researching products online, I decided to order a progesterone cream made by Dr. John Lee. I'm currently taking half of the recommended dose and it has done wonders for me. This is a temporary trial, as long as I feel it is beneficial to my health, I will continue using it. After 6 months I will discontinue use and see what happens.

    My experience thus far: My mind is clear, no breast tenderness, no ovarian pain and no premenstrual bloating or moodiness. I still have a normal 25 day cycle.

    A healthy diet and lifestyle is key to managing a hormone imbalance. What works for me will not work for everyone. My current diet has been 8 years in the making, I am constantly adjusting it. Trying to treat a hormone imbalance with medication alone may offer some temporary relief, but it will not resolve the underlying issues. The symptoms will return...

    This is a very important thread and I hope more women will contribute. As WC said, we will all experience this sometime in our life. Education is power... I have 50+ journals that I've written over the past 10 years, I have documented everything. My daughter will have all of my notes when the time comes...

    Sorry, lengthy post...
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    Thank you JH!
    I love this.
    You took ownership of your health, you make your doctor your health partner not your ruler, you found answers, you do what works best for you, for as long as it is effective.

    I've just been reading in Dr Northrupt's book on the effects of diet on hormones and on the use of herbs. These are two things that have been lifelong interests for me. My own experience has been that they make a huge difference. I have to take D3 too. If I don't I'm just dragging and down. Guess as I've matured my body has just not been able to draw what I need even though I work outdoors part of the time.

    I've just gotten the book, The Hormone Diet, to further educate myself on this. I was getting a bit hot flashy for a while and for myself they do seem to be more stress related. Stress does affect our bodies chemical balances, diet and exersize can go a long way towards balancing that.

    You go right on ahead and write a book here if you want to. I created this hoping to get more sharing going on.
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    Hey WC - Another good book is, The Perfect 10 Diet by Dr. Michael Aziz. It discusses the 10 key hormones and what foods to eat to maintain a healthy balance. Everyone should get a copy of this book, not just women.

    If there was one bit of advice that I could give all women, it would be to listen to your breasts. Our breasts indicate what is going on with our estrogen levels, pay attention. Breast cancer, Fibrocystic Breast Disease, Fibroids, Endometriosis and cysts can be prevented. Unopposed estrogen is not kind to our bodies.
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    Yep its all about maintaining balance
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    I think churches should offer menopause support groups. It's something that is a given, affects half the congregation, yet no one talks about it. Everybody acts like it's a dirty word to bring up in everyday conversation-things like vaginal dryness, hot flashes, night sweats, irritability, mood swings, menstrual irregularities, skin crawlies and itching, adult onset acne. If God mad our bodies to go through this, why wouldn't God want us to talk about it and get it out in the open?

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    You know that's a darn good question, have you ever asked your Pastor why he can't start one? That you would gladly be involved in it? Is it that and let's face it, that the Pastors in all Churches are men...
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
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    you must believe!

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    I have been experiencing a total lack of interest in sex WITH my husband. I have participated in bringing him to climax. But have lost desire. NEVER before has this happened to me. This is bad, and i question everything within me, why...? As well as, it being unfair to him. This is not something that should occur in a health, happy marriage.
    I feel a complete lack of drive with him. And find pleasure in self............ (not something i am proud of, nor ever thought would happen to me) Menopause, but may run deeper. ???

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    I wish I had known about the breast as indicator of hormonal balance. I did not, of course and did acquire a fibroid in my late 40s. I think its presence has been more annoying to my vaginal joy than the hormonal change! However, it has stopped its growth and I hardly notice it anymore (last vag US indicated shrinkage, but it was not a big tumor to begin with).

    I had a very huge sex drive for two years, right as my periods first became erratic. Fortunately, I do have a partner to share that fun with, but now I am less interested. I do not fight this change, but I do miss that bone melting need of sex. The strong pulse of a good orgasm seems gone too, but like yourself Olympia I self pleasure and I have no problems then. It may run deeper as you suggested. I think the appetite for sex can be fulfilled, and then for awhile, we just do not want it, the same way we do not want food after a big meal. That sounds simplistic I know. Maybe it is just time for us, and our sex drive is one feeling that reflects it.

    I am only one year post, so maybe things will be different in 6 months. It is interesting that I do know I am different. It is like the change from childhood to puberty, it seems that profound to me. Yet I have the same personality traits, but now the background has changed (???) Yes, menopause does run deep!

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    I'm 51, started menopause at 45. I am now bleeding again, lightly in the past year, but more heavily in the past week. Help! I have been under stress and am hoping that is all it is... Any advice besides the 'go to the doctor' thing?

    Would like to add the stressors for me are- in the past 6 years, I have started menopause, lost my job, got married, and moved.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WildChild View Post
    Personal experience is continuing to confirn that hot flashes are stress/emotionally or perhaps in my case, sexually based. My finances area mess, have cars that need work, desktop computer that I spent over $700 having rebuilt 2 yrs ago may be fried (mega virus?, Norton let in the last one) - in other words things aren't all roses. BUT I have a very affectionate and loving man who has come into my life since the beginning of the year and *poof* no hot flashes.

    So there you have it. Apparently sex and intimacy relieve hot flashes.

    Go Get Some Lovin' Ladies!
    I've made that in bold, WC because I've discovered that to be true. When my hormonal fluctuations set in (between the 20th - 4oth-ish days in my cycle, since I have an extended cycle), hubby gives me the extra lovin'.
    What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are but how you deal with incompatibility. - Leo Tolstoy

    The clearest explanation for failure of any marriage is that two people are incompatible; that is, one is male and the other female. - Anna Quindlen

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