Boy can I

relate to what you are saying!
I have a few websites to share. I know they are not even close area wise to where you are at, but maybe they will help you to know what to look for locally.
The first one is
Women's Health America: Menopause, Perimenopause, PMS, Estrogen, Progesterone, Testosterone This one I have used myself and have had very good results. Most testing is done through the mail. (all of mine was)
The second site is one Iam currently checking out and the reason I am checking on a second site is because of the "adrenal gland testing" that they offer. (www.womentowomen.com)
I hope you will continue to search for answers, because they are out there.
So much new information is becoming available all the time, we just have to be willing to search and share what we find.
JMontonye