Thread: why is this happening?

MAY- I spent the night with my boyfriend. We messed around, but DID NOT have sex. We were a little scared that he might have had semen on his fingers and then touched me. I got my period a couple weeks later.

JUNE- We again had the same fear that he touched me with semen on his fingers, but were reassured that everything was ok when I got my period a few weeks after this happened.

JULY- We showered together and things got a little carried away, and he ejaculated. I don’t know if any got on me, but I was worried that it might have rinsed down into my vagina with the water. I got my period a few weeks later, so I again thought everything was okay. I had a few moments of panic and bought a pregnancy test, and it was negative.

AUGUST- We were careful. I’m still a virgin. I got my period at the end of the month.

SEPTEMBER- Moved into second year of college. Missed my period but got a little brown spotting one day when I should have gotten my period. Did not think much of it because I normally skip period at the start of school due to stress.

OCTOBER- Again missed my period. In another moment of panic, I bought a pregnancy test and it was negative.

NOVEMBER- It’s still not here yet! I’ve never missed two periods in a row. My cycle has always been a little irregular but this has never happened. I’m worried that something is wrong.

Can anyone give me some insight as to what is going on? Or had a similar experience? I'm not sure if it's possible that i'm pregnant since i've never had sex. Thanks a million for those who answer. because i never had sex.

For future reference, if he ejaculates on his hands, make sure he washes them before he inserts them inside you, or having him slip a condom on over his finger if he must. You CAN get pregnant if he has semen on his hands and puts them inside you. If you took a pregnancy test and it came back negative in October, I would take one again in NOvember. I would doubt you're pregnant, but it's always nice to know for sure. I would also suggest speaking with your doctor about getting on some type of hormonal birth control. This will regulate your cycles and also prevent any pregnancy scares you may have in the future.