Thread: please help

First off, you would really know if you had a bladder infection that severe. Bladder infections do not cause bleeding until they are farther along and by that point, you will feel severe burning when you urinate and you will feel the need to urinate all the time. The blood would actually be found in your urine and not the same place you have your period. So that is something entirely different.

So are your period coming once a month? And just sometimes a little bit of bleeding a week or two before? If you are getting your periods monthly and they are just off by a couple of weeks at times, there should be nothing to worry about. You just have irregular periods. I am sure that is what it is if you have been checked out by multiple doctors. Most women experience that at some time in their lives. Your period can vary in length, time of arrival, amount of blood, thickness and color of blood, amount of cramping, etc. Birth control is not a gauranteed method of controlling your period either. It has a high success rate with some BC, but not always. Keep in mind, it is not necessary to control your period like that. Your body is doing what it needs to do. Stress and unhealthy lifestyles will cause irregular bleeding and it is normal.

If it's really bothering you to have it irregular, tell your doc to try a different birth control for you. But honestly, don't take it unless you really need it.