what does it mean if i bleed after intercourse?
i'm not on birthcontrol and usually, my man gets blood on him also.
is it natural, is it okay, i do have irregular bleeding inbetween my periods.

It could be from hormone fluctuations, a tear in the vaginal wall, or there could be a medical condition causing the bleeding. The only way to be certain about something like that is to see your gynecologist for a full exam.