Thread: in need of help please!!!!

Originally Posted by artisclvr_88

I am new to this, but i am turning 20 in may and me and my b/f do not use protection. (allergic to the latex) my last period was in march 6th -12th i believe. But lately i have cramps but no blood. And I wondering if anyone could help me or maybe im just freaking out. btw, I have never been on the pill at all. and in the past before I had my b/f (he is actually my first relationship) I have had miss periods but I never had sex then. So can anyone help me please and thank you.

I understand the allergic reaction, my body doesn't like nylon for instance.

I think the best thing for you to do honestly, is to take a pregnancy test which you can purchase from a Chemist, they usually have two in the packet so you can try now and in a week's time to see, if your period does not come.

But, you really also need to speak with a Doctor if you don't like the pill for your reasons and he can't wear a condom, there are lots of other things you can do to protect yourself from pregnancy.

And i assume that you are not wanting to have a baby yet together.

So it's important if in the clear, to ensure that you stay that way...

Cramps can be a lot of things, lateness and trying to start the cycle, is only one...

Just best to go to a Doctor in this instance i think once you've conducted a test or just go and let them take a blood test and let you know and discuss all your options to avoid pregnancy if you are not wanting to become pregnant.

Good luck.

CW