Thread: brown discharge + white bump

Background: virgin, always irregular period
one night this week my boyfriend fingered me a little too much and it got sore, I told him and he stopped and I thought nothing of it but when I woke up the next morning I noticed some brown discharge but just a tiny bit and it stopped after I cleaned it

Problem: now its 3 days after and theres a lot of brown discharge and a painful white bump (my mom says it might be an ingrown hair inside the vagina)
I've also been feeling a little weak but that could just be my period coming
I am putting vasoline on the bump but I know its for external use... :/

Question: Should I be concerned about the white bump?
what should I put on the bump to ease the pain and make it go away?

MEN::: would you be grossed out if your girlfriend whos always clean told you the reason you couldn't go down there is because she has a problem (like a white sore that may be an ingrown hair)


thanks to all who respond

UPDATE*
its old blood and a herpes type 1 sore
which is the same thing as a cold sore or canker sore but in the downstairs region which sucks cause it hurts and I've never had them before down there... but you can take stuff for them so I will.. bah..