Thread: I know I was gone for a bit it's cause I ended myself in the psych hospital again

Your breasts are a factor in how attractive you are at first glance, but so are a lot of other things -- style, smile, face, legs, butt, hair, weight, makeup, and voice, to name a few. If you want to be superficially appealing, improving any of these areas will help.

What's really attractive, though, is behavior. Guys break up with models all the time because relationships about what you do, not what you look like. The "beautiful people" aren't the ones in loving 50-year marriages. Learning how to communicate with men and being able to feel and show appreciation for them will bring you more happiness than a boob job ever could.

It's tough to do those things without a healthy self-esteem, though. There's a hierarchy of needs at work here that makes it difficult to appreciate others until you can appreciate yourself. What are your good qualities? Are you stylish? Smart? Cute? Fit? Sensual? Thoughtful?

Focus on what's good about your body, your mind, and your habits, and your self-esteem will start to pick up.