Depression and Security Clearance - Page 2

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-21-2009, 02:39 AM

Miya, everyone has stress in their lives... I am sure he'll be fine and work will be fine, but it's probably work that he doesn't like and is making him un-happy...

That's all he needs to establish what? Because he had passions and hobbies and he's not interested in them anymore.

Finances can do it as well.

I put a flat mate in my house who said she works 3 days a week as a Nurse. After she moved in, it was evident that she smoked marijiana and as time went by it was noted 7am in the morning, as soon as she wakes up until she goes to sleep.

I have talked to her about the ability of Nursing, the dollars, the reason why she can't go to work stoned, etc, etc, etc. Yesterday my neighbour said that she has been asked to take a Urine test. Why? Someone has said something. She asked my neighbour to take her and swap Urine.. My Neighbour said no... I know that she has / will lose her job and I'm pleased it's not on, and she's 36 and off course I will have to kick her out as there will be no rent.

The point of this story? That's a reason to cause problems in a workplace, not a minor depression sweet.

Stay strong and I'm glad that he will establish what is getting him down..

Obviously, he is happy with you as he should be

And, your wise old soul, well that tells me that you wouldn't have married him if he wasn't marriage material and beautiful inside.

Hang in there.

CW

Devon · 10-21-2009, 05:35 AM

I wish him all the very best for his health... Even I was suffering from anxiety and depression... My god I was feeling horrible. Hmmm, thankfully I could come over it. I took online treatment. Why don't you ask him to try once... Or, you can get a FREE report on 'how to break free from a stressful life' read that and help him out. He is very lucky that he have you Miya... Take care.

sperosi · 10-25-2009, 02:52 PM

if he does go and see someone professionally, he will have to declare it on his next security update form. if he doesn't and they find out about it, then he will not only lose his clearance, but could get charged criminally for lying on the form.

10-21-2009, 02:39 AM	#11
CHANDLERS WISH WH Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 9,958 Blog Entries: 7	Miya, everyone has stress in their lives... I am sure he'll be fine and work will be fine, but it's probably work that he doesn't like and is making him un-happy... That's all he needs to establish what? Because he had passions and hobbies and he's not interested in them anymore. Finances can do it as well. I put a flat mate in my house who said she works 3 days a week as a Nurse. After she moved in, it was evident that she smoked marijiana and as time went by it was noted 7am in the morning, as soon as she wakes up until she goes to sleep. I have talked to her about the ability of Nursing, the dollars, the reason why she can't go to work stoned, etc, etc, etc. Yesterday my neighbour said that she has been asked to take a Urine test. Why? Someone has said something. She asked my neighbour to take her and swap Urine.. My Neighbour said no... I know that she has / will lose her job and I'm pleased it's not on, and she's 36 and off course I will have to kick her out as there will be no rent. The point of this story? That's a reason to cause problems in a workplace, not a minor depression sweet. Stay strong and I'm glad that he will establish what is getting him down.. Obviously, he is happy with you as he should be And, your wise old soul, well that tells me that you wouldn't have married him if he wasn't marriage material and beautiful inside. Hang in there. CW __________________ Do we not realise that in order to find a soul It doesn't happen over night if truth were to be told Like everything in life that's hard to achieve you must believe! Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod

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10-21-2009, 05:35 AM	#12
Devon Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 2	I wish him all the very best for his health... Even I was suffering from anxiety and depression... My god I was feeling horrible. Hmmm, thankfully I could come over it. I took online treatment. Why don't you ask him to try once... Or, you can get a FREE report on 'how to break free from a stressful life' read that and help him out. He is very lucky that he have you Miya... Take care.

10-25-2009, 02:52 PM	#13
sperosi Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 28	if he does go and see someone professionally, he will have to declare it on his next security update form. if he doesn't and they find out about it, then he will not only lose his clearance, but could get charged criminally for lying on the form.