Any person that proposes after two months is actually swept up in "fantasy/lust". At some stage reality hit/kicks in.
Have you ever considered it was her child as to that reason? He loves children, he obtained an instant bond with that child, I bet that's why he proposed.
In addition, a man who proposes after a couple of years, is SURE.. she's the one and there's no low self esteme there. You're viewing it back to front.
The fact is she is a lier, she probably was after a husband "finance" for her child, she probably co-ersed him into thinking about marriage from get go, liers continue to lie.
The fact again that he left her and doesn't communicate, the fact that he appreciates your feelings and doesn't bring this child around you, the fact that he's been with you over a year tells you, you've got 100% ON HER.
So, all you have to do, is get that through your mind.. He's with you. He chose you.. He hasn't talked to her.. He loves you.. and there is no reason anymore to find out about her.
She manipulated I'm guessing through the child.
And, if that's not convincing enough ask him. Communication is the only thing that makes relationships last, you don't have to spill anything, just a simple question... "What made you get engaged last time in only 8 weeks hun?" Curious that's all.
CW



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