I'm not too sure, try to get out as much as you can, do things you enjoy, hang out with people. Its what Ive been doing lately. Conqour your problems head on!
i just am not finding the right places to try to help me feel not so worthless and alone is there any websites that i can find some kind of help from people or just a friend to talk to?
i look forward to replies..thank you.
I'm not too sure, try to get out as much as you can, do things you enjoy, hang out with people. Its what Ive been doing lately. Conqour your problems head on!
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Start by telling us what you feel depressed over? Why?
How many hours you spend creating and re-creating Max..
What else you do with your days...
What your sleeping pattern is, your eating pattern and how much time you spend alone, at home.
Who you live with and how you interact with them, get on with them.
And, then "Conqour your problems head on" as Anon statedHe just did.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
i don't have anyone to bond with or to talk to about how i feel anywhere at home it's terrible i don't feel wanted at home..i sleep at night and wake up in the morning i eat fruit alot...like bananas and grapes i don't talk about pencil max much but he's pretty popular =).. i play or go out or watch tv and get on the computer. i don't feel loved by anyone and i usually am alone.. all day long but sometimes i go out with my brother and his wife. i just really feel like there is nobody that loves me in the world.![]()
Okay...
You know, I pretty much was the black sheep of the family.. I have one brother, now that we are all older, we all get on very well, but when I was a teenager, it was extremely difficult, because I was "different"..in every way, the way they thought and the way I thought, the things I wanted to be, become, and the simplicity of how they saw life.. Lots of things really... So, it was hard, very hard.
Fantasy steps in... Maybe Pencil Max, is your savour in that regard, he's real, but he's also a part of your personality, he is popular I can see that on My-Space, and you need to see how talented you are, because that is Art, and it's a talent and maybe you are different than your folks, maybe you will be successful in creating childrens books with Pencil Max, a picture even.. Who knows? Dare to dream?
So you can't change your family.. But, you can change your direction.. Are there art classes you can join? People like you.. Being around likeminded people makes the world of difference.
For instance, I will not associate with negative people, it gives off negative energy and brings you down. So, I associate with positive people and what happens then? It brings your spirit up and it keeps you in line with who you are.
So, I think outside of the "computer world" you need to get into the real world and find like minded people to start with.
What may seem endless and hopeless, is sometimes only a change in direction...
Look for places that people love drawing, creating, and join them.
Also, eating.. Why only fruit? Do you eat proper dinners? Nothing wrong with fruit but if you are not eating right, you have no energy and that can bring on depression.
When you go out ( seeing as you have a wicked smile) smile at everyone, and see what happens. When you give a smile, people give it back..
You may be walking around not realising that to be loved, you have to love you and you have to open up more and talk to people, a smile is a start. Watch people smile back at you, try it.
You also need to see what work you can do, with the energy you have, your artistic, so what can you do? Even some volunteer work to start with..
Staying at home, all the time, tv, computers, that's not going to help you.. You need to balance, have a life, outside of that house...
Your isolated that's all.. And, you need to start putting your thinking cap on, on how you can use all that energy that you have, via a computer, via Pencil Max, via sites, Forums, where you meet people, talk to people and put that out into the real world..
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CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
thank you for the reply.
Okay, you lot if you saw this guy smiling at you in the street, would you smile back? I would.
Here? You've only posted 20 so far, and so people haven't gotten to know you so well yet, but they will and those you have befriended, will say hi, are you saying hi?
So, are you on any medication for depression? If not do you think that may help as well?
Remember, it's the weekend, so replies to your post are going to take a little time...
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
okay=) yeah i take medication......i will talk to the people i befriended.
i've got manic depression
if thats any good to you?
im around x
'so why care for these petty obsessions? your designer heart still beats with common blood. and what if you could have genetic perfection? would you change who you are if you could?'
When I find myself in a really low mood sometimes I like to go here, either to tal ka bout my problems or sometimes just helping someone else with theirs helps me to feel better:
(edit outbound link - replaced with google depression chat rooms)
You what really gets me... is how many people in the world seem to struggle with depression, and feeling lonely. I mean, how do we all exist in this world together, yet still feel so alone? It's crazy.
I struggle with depression/anxiety, and have for almost all my life...
I'm constantly looking to make new friends, and while there are people all around me - they all seem to busy in their own world to make time to be a friend to me. I don't get it.
I wish all the lonely people in the world could join a website, make friends and never be lonely again!
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