Keep him
Dump him
Not sure-he might be worth keeping if he will try to get a job
Run girl.
Unless you talk to him about this and truly changes. RUN!
I understand that he's helped you in the past, but asking you to buy him a flat screen? Please...
Do not let him walk all over you. I know that you love him, but you cannot stay in a destructive relationship. It will ruin your life. I stayed with an abusive guy for over 2 years because I thought I couldn't live without him. That being said, I was 18-19 years old and a little dumb. No way he'd get away with that now... no guy could.
He's a big boy- he can find a job. You are not responsible for his entertainment.
I understand wanting to help him, but this has gone beyond that.
Don't be discouraged of men... just this man.
vivre bien
KKat:
So sorry to hear bout your RA. Is a tough row, and I wish you the best.
I can't add to the good advice you've already gotten. I think you've know in your heart for some time. Now - gotta get the courage to do what you know has to be done.
Please give us an update on how you are doing.
Pat
He lived with his Mother well into adulthood and lives on the other side of the ocean? Dump him. Long distance on those terms is impossible. It will fail ultimately AND doesn't even live within a reasonable distance. If you don't break it off now you will eventually or he will. Sorry.
Last edited by Fallen1; 09-24-2010 at 03:37 PM.
sorry, i know this is a bit late
but no its not a european thing with money.
i agree with everyone else
he's a mooch and a sponge
and what he's doing is not okay
x
'so why care for these petty obsessions? your designer heart still beats with common blood. and what if you could have genetic perfection? would you change who you are if you could?'
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