Thread: SO insecure about my breasts!

You shouldn't care what men think as long as YOU'RE comfortable with your appearance. Granted every person has something about them they aren't very confident about, but the important thing is to remember that it does not matter what someone thinks, especially if the "someone" is all men. Because no matter what, there's someone out there who is going to love you for every single thing about you, even things you don't like about yourself, and their opinion will be more important than anyone else's, aside from your own.

Besides, I have large breasts and they freaking suck. Small breasts are prettier in my opinion and don't cause you back problems like large ones do. And girls with smaller breasts get all the cute bras too. Do you know how hard it is to find a cute or even really sexy bra at a decent price, that's comfortable, in a larger size? It's like the search for the Holy Grail. Be thankful, not insecure.

You're perfect if you love yourself the way you are.

Many women with large breasts wish they were smaller, because of the attention they attract and/or the physical problems they can create. Many women with small breasts wish they were larger, because they want to attract more attention and/or feel sexier.

But it's the same with men. Lots and lots worry about their penis being too small and wish they were bigger, but many of the men who really are hung like a horse probably wish they were smaller, because a very large penis can be uncomfortable and even painful for women.

I guess the grass is always greener on the other side.

(...though, yes, I do realize that breasts are always on display in one way or another, even when they are covered with clothes, because then you can still have a fairly good idea of their size, while the same can't be said for penises, so it's not completely the same)

Originally Posted by Tex

Many women with large breasts wish they were smaller, because of the attention they attract and/or the physical problems they can create. Many women with small breasts wish they were larger, because they want to attract more attention and/or feel sexier.

But it's the same with men. Lots and lots worry about their penis being too small and wish they were bigger, but many of the men who really are hung like a horse probably wish they were smaller, because a very large penis can be uncomfortable and even painful for women.

I guess the grass is always greener on the other side.

(...though, yes, I do realize that breasts are always on display in one way or another, even when they are covered with clothes, because then you can still have a fairly good idea of their size, while the same can't be said for penises, so it's not completely the same)

Yeah, I mean I have never been with a big guy, but I still think I prefer an average/smallish guy. I physically don't need a huge guy to get off, and it makes it A LOT easier for me to do 'certain' things to him. Good, pleasurable things.

When will guys learn?

Originally Posted by Silly Girl

When will guys learn?

Probably never, just like women will never learn that for most men the size or shape of a woman's [insert name of body part] has little to no importance.

OK, not to disprove your point, but why then do waitresses with larger boobs get better tips from men? And the same with the hitch hiker experiment... and men's magazines...

O just find it hard to believe that small breasts are just as good as big ones. Of course, in terms of lactation they are, but in terms of sex appeal it just doesn't seem like it.

There are so so so many threads of women complaining about the size of their breasts. Is it really that important? Its a regular thing on here and Im sure everyone gets bored of telling each person the same thing, over and over. But it always amazes me that the ladies who ask for advice/opinions dont stop telling the people who are trying to give it to them that they are wrong. If small breasts are not as attractive as larger ones then why are celebs like Keira Knightley so beautiful. I would sooner look at a women and say 'wow, look at her shes lovely' when she is slim and has a pretty face, than someone who IMO is not so pretty but has big breasts. I dont have big breasts and threads like this make me feel unfeminine. Which I know is not true, Im very feminine. Maybe you should consider surgery if you are really not happy?

Originally Posted by Silly Girl

OK, not to disprove your point, but why then do waitresses with larger boobs get better tips from men? And the same with the hitch hiker experiment... and men's magazines...

You have to take into consideration the sources of these statistics. For instance, are these waitresses from Hooters or from Chili's? Are the men giving the tips single and out looking to flirt with waitresses or are they out to have dinner? Are the girls with bigger boobs dressed more provocatively because of their boob size? etc. etc.

I have a C and used to feel the same way as you whenever I saw celebrities, other woman, etc. etc., with beautiful big breasts. Now though, I'm happy with mine. I'm glad guys don't ogle over my boobs, that would annoy the out of me. I'm glad I can fit into most tops. I'm glad they won't hang super low before their time. My fiance loves my breasts too. He's more attracted to fit women rather than those with large breasts. He doesn't want me to get implants due to health risks. He'd rather me healthy than anything else. Fortunately, I found a man that doesn't like porn or strip clubs. You need to find a great guy that loves you for who you are and treats you respectfully. The last one sounded pretty shallow and I think someone else mentioned how you shouldn't use a person like that as a barometer.

Originally Posted by Little.Chuck

There are so so so many threads of women complaining about the size of their breasts. Is it really that important? Its a regular thing on here and Im sure everyone gets bored of telling each person the same thing, over and over. But it always amazes me that the ladies who ask for advice/opinions dont stop telling the people who are trying to give it to them that they are wrong. If small breasts are not as attractive as larger ones then why are celebs like Keira Knightley so beautiful. I would sooner look at a women and say 'wow, look at her shes lovely' when she is slim and has a pretty face, than someone who IMO is not so pretty but has big breasts. I dont have big breasts and threads like this make me feel unfeminine. Which I know is not true, Im very feminine. Maybe you should consider surgery if you are really not happy?

I apologize if it makes you feel that way. For what is worth I have never mentioned the word unfemenine. I mean, for me, what bothers me is that from what I can tell, men and a lot of women seem to think that big breasts are sexy and superior in some way. When I think that small breasts should be considered just as good, but it doesn't seem to be the case, from what I perceive from most men, from my ex, and from the media. They all go gaga over big breasts, magazines for men are filled with them, and showing a little cleavage helps a lot of women get their way. It's not the same with small breasts, and I can't help but notice.

That is not to say I think small breasts are unfeminine, I have never said so. There are other qualities which make a woman look feminine, and small breasts are just smaller versions of big breasts. It's the same thing really, which is why it irks me so much that size seems to make a difference. It's just mammary glands, fat, skin and nipples, size should be irrelevant but it doesn't seem to be.