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    Unhappy How to deal with these feelings?

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    Most days I'm fine, and in a good mood and quite content with life. But there are days in which I can't help but think about different things which make me feel pretty sad and even useless. For instance, it can sound a bit cliché, but thinking about kids with no families, or elderly people with no families, people who live in unhappy marriages/families, people with disabilities or medical conditions, people who starve, people who are depressed, even about animals that have no homes or that are mistreated... as you can see, there are many things which put me in that mood, I probably forgot to mention many of them, but you get what I'm talking about.

    It's a disheartening feeling. I am very, VERY grateful for my life even if sometimes I get down about silly things. But knowing that other people suffer so much just makes me feel terribly sad. I know I can go volunteering, and I probably will, but that won't make much of a difference.

    How can I deal with those episodes? Just about anything triggers it.

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    Hmmm does it happen often? Maybe you strongly feel that you need to contribute somehow and help people/animals in need. I think you should take advantage of this feeling and do something the next time you feel like that. Volunteering will probably help a lot as then you will know that you do all you can. Do you have a job? Maybe you can find more ways to contribute through work, find something more fulfilling in the sense of helping others. I think that if you help even one person in some way it will make you very happy.

    I tend to feel like that too at times, mostly about my parents getting old, me being away from them and unable to help them when they need me. Then this leads to other, more general, thoughts, like the ones you have. I usually get it at nights, when everything is so quiet and still that enhances the feeling of being unable to help.

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    SillyGirl, don't ever believe that volunteering is a waste of time or energy. It's not. I work for a social services agency which specializes in the needs of the elderly and although I'm not a social worker I talked to them all the time and have been involved in projects where volunteering in a necessity.

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    I've been a bit busy, so I hadn't been able to reply before.

    I think I will enroll in some sort of volunteering. I think probably working with the elderly, I really like elderly people. I have such a great relationship with my grandmother, it saddens me a lot to think these people are living their last years in solitude, it's just heartbreaking.

    I know volunteering is not a waste of time, it most definitely isn't. It's just sometimes I wish more could be done for all people/animals in need.

    Thanks

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