I think im losing it? Pmdd or what? Srry its so long i just need help.

**Ceecee** · 10-13-2010 10:24 PM

Hey guys,well i had a good week last week i spent my bday with my bf and all that and i came home happy everyday.This week i started cramping and tuesday i finally got my period.I noticed something really strange tho about me starting Tuesday.I felt really outa place my home life seemed out of place and my relationship seemed dead,knowing that nothings changed.And Tuesday night i noticed i was getting really sad over a issue that my bf doesnt know.Its not a bad lie its just id rather not tell him now but i am in the future.But what was so strange is the issue never occured to me before.So why is it now? I never cared before because i knew my destiny with it.Not only that i cried over little things.And ive ben getting so aggravated with my mom and dad.And my moods have been so odd.Like monday i was ok.Tuesday guilt and sadness kicked in.Today was a bit odd tho i have felt guilt sadness and all the negative feelings.One minute im mad over my issue with my bf then i dont care about it.I just wanna go back to my old self.I cannot tell if its depression,pmdd,or seasonal depression.Ive tried it all my birth control,and midol.I know midol sounds silly but i was kinda hopeing maybe it would help my moods alil.Because i dont wanna take antidepressents...But other than that i wanted to get help before friday thats wen im going to his house and i wanted to get back to my old self.But im afraid i wont.And i cant seem to figure out what it is with me?Pmdd is probally it but i dont know.And ive ben getting the urge to eat alot.Thats all ive done ALL day.Im really hopeing that watever im feeling is my period because i dont wanna end everything ive worked for such as my bf,family and stuff like that.And ive tried talking to my mom about it but she seems to close me off.The reason i am freaking out tho is because watever this is im feeling is shutting me down.And making me go crazy so ladies i need some positive answers to help me out alil,hope you liked my post and thanx for all the help....

**Ceecee** · 10-13-2010 10:44 PM

Cmon guys i need help plz reply

**LanaBear** · 10-14-2010 10:09 AM

Ceecee - I can sympathize with you as I know of at least one more person on this forum can. We've been texting each other and helping each other through this.

Mine has gotten really really bad the last few months. Go to your Dr, get your hormones checked, everything. There are things that can be done to help. I've never advocated meds, in any way shape or form and have stayed as far away as possible for them. However, when I went to my Dr about this a few weeks ago, she gave me a very low dose prescription for Zoloft, to only take 7-14 days before my period, then stop once my period starts. It was the first time in a long long time that I felt some semblance of the person I normally am during PMS.

I expressed my aversion to this when I talked to her and she totally left it in my hands, she gave me the prescription so that I would have it should I need it. She said that if I had a smelly and itchy vagina, I would come to her for some help and this was the same thing, I just needed some temporary help to get myself over some things that were/are happening in my life.

Start with your Dr and get all your levels checked. Read some books about diet and life changes that may help.

Good luck.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-16-2010 05:32 AM

This week i started cramping and tuesday i finally got my period

So is this your first period? I ask that because of what you've written and that you spoke to your Mum but she shut off, often parents don't tell us how it all works, mine didn't

If this is the case, you need to talk to your Dr, about birth control, if your depressed, cramping, feeling different, often you need something to help you through, with me it was BC, helped me get through each month...

Otherwise, if that's not the case, then Lana is correct, the only solution is to get your hormone levels checked...

Can you let us know one way or the other please so we can reply further to you....

Welcome to our Forum...

CW

**lonestar** · 10-20-2010 01:33 PM

I have just figured out this is my problem as well. It describes me to a t. I am already on antidepressants because I'm already a little unstable without this too! It has been causing problems in my relationship to the point of break up threats. It's so bad and I can't control it. I feel like I'm losing my s hit! I have scheduled a doc appointment tomorrow, but my God... I know what you mean!