Thread: Catching everyone up on Gigi

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

I do....your basically bringing up your brother

If both your parents are working different shifts, one is sleeping whilst the other one is working predominately and they are finding it hard to control your brother ,yet, he is finding it hard growing up without a family, I think.....

Do you think maybe your parents realise they are not there for you both as much as they should be, are worried as your nearly 18 but in their own way, they off course love you, but are over protective as they don't see you as much, definately together as 4, a family enough...

That's a lot on your shoulders......

And, it's a lot for them to have to deal with, ships in the night, stress, never seeing each other either, tension must be there, where they want harmony when they are home...Perhaps they are not coping as well as they would like to.....Maybe, you need to view your brother as he's pretty much on his own as you have been for years and start becoming more of a friend? Maybe he feels like you do...

Actually,my mom does work nights but she even sleeps 4 hours or so a day so she can be up with us and spend time with us.So we spend ALOT of time together as a family to be honest. I feel like too much time maybe cause i just want time to myself. haha.

Originally Posted by Tex

Very good point. If there is not enough "family time" and he is so much on his own, he might be acting up because he wants attention. But yeah, that could be a good opportunity to be more of a friend to him and see if that doesn't help him out.

See hes actually a very well behaved kid.He doesn't run around and get into trouble.He has manners and never disrespects people.Except his sissy.It's wierd. I mean we are close. and we've always been close. But lately he has just gotten mean.Like he doesn't listen to me.And he tends to raise his voice alot. Its not like him but hes just growing up i guess. idk

Originally Posted by Tex

I told you so, I told you so, I told you, told you, told you so!

One more word about Mr. Excremento... I can understand that the situation with his mother changed his mood, just like it takes a toll on you whenever there are health concerns with your mother. Nevertheless, even cancer is not a justification for treating you the way they did. It was probably good for you to see how he acts under pressure, so it wouldn't have been an even worse surprise, had you gotten more serious with him and then found out.

Speaking of family, how is your relationship with your big sister these days?

Yeaaa I'm grateful in a way.things happen for a reason i suppose

Things with my sister are going REALLY well. We had a scare the other morning.I stopped breathing in my sleep and woke up trying to breathe and crying.My mom and sister came rushing in cause i was actually able to make some noises.They were both crying.I didnt mean to scare them.but i sure dang scared myself! Acid reflux runs in my family,and I've never gotten heartburn bad,and its never bothered me,But i had eaten spicy food the night before,and It had a reaction and nearly closed off my airway. My sister got really scared, i felt really bad. But she comes around all the time,Her boyfriend and I are even close again,and everything there has fallen back into place