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    I talked a little in another thread about a mentally ill friend of mine and my undying concern for his well-being. I tried several times to get into the spiritual aspect of my connection with this man but couldn't post any mention of it. I gave up then honestly believing it wasn't meant to be. This post is to ask anyone who believes in the power of collective human energy focusing to help someone suffering. My friend does not handle stress well and quickly becomes delusional. He can be frightening to someone that does not know him. I currently have a legal no-contact order with him but I have a spiritual connection that is screaming at me to help him deal with his uncertainty about his future, loneliness, or whatever is bothering him. I am really worried about him. I could not sleep last night and did not know why. I have felt uncomfortable all day and tonight I feel almost desperate to help him. If he could feel my concern I know it would calm him. I've done this with people in the flesh with remarkable results, but I'm hoping a fellow spiritual being can join me by reading this. For those of you who have not experienced this, trust me, it really happens.

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    Our mind is powerful... As you can do this in person you can do this in spirit, by concentrating and focusing on his face and showing him your arms of it's safe....

    You almost make me feel as if your connection in a previous life was so strong....

    But that previous life didn't have a good ending, be careful in this journey...

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    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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    Thank you for not thinking I was crazy. I got a very upsetting call months ago from my friend and was distressing then too. A friend was here with me and to gether we thought good energy thoughts for him. A few minutes later he called and was so much better I slept well that night. The connection I have with him is real. We have had conversations without saying a word. Sometimes I would have a thought and he would whirl around and ask "What did you say?"
    Years ago a girl was at my house waiting for her boyfriend to pick her up. I barely knew her and knew him not at all. I was hungry and wanted pepperoni pizza. I told her think about pizza, and him getting 1. Sure enough he not only found my house but said he got the urge for pepperoni pizza and stopped to get it.

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    This may turn out to be one for the books. I won't say now what the outcome could be, but I just got news that may be the answer to my problem and my lifelong dream come true. If the news is true, I am eternally grateful for your positive and evidently powerful energy directed my way.

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    And if it is, curiousity always killed the cat, consequently we would like to know
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Knebi Coxby View Post
    Thank you for not thinking I was crazy. I got a very upsetting call months ago from my friend and was distressing then too. A friend was here with me and to gether we thought good energy thoughts for him. A few minutes later he called and was so much better I slept well that night. The connection I have with him is real. We have had conversations without saying a word. Sometimes I would have a thought and he would whirl around and ask "What did you say?"
    Years ago a girl was at my house waiting for her boyfriend to pick her up. I barely knew her and knew him not at all. I was hungry and wanted pepperoni pizza. I told her think about pizza, and him getting 1. Sure enough he not only found my house but said he got the urge for pepperoni pizza and stopped to get it.
    Knebi, not everyone has the power to communicate without words, but alot of people actually do.

    You should try to find a group, to join so that you can understand this more and learn more...I know you have people around you that are like you but I am talking alot of people like youand I wonder if in doing that, you come across people that can read your mind, you theres but there is no connection... I wonder if you see this gift as the other person therefore is a soulmate?

    I say this because I have this ability, more so when I was a child, because frankly the witch in me (by choice) left when I was 27 and I allowed it back in at 44, too many freaky things to deal with, with little or no understanding...

    My Mother could in her mind ask me to bring her a box of tissues, behind a closed door , three rooms away and I would....and she would say to Dad, "see?"...

    My ex-husband and I had a simular connection, he would accuse, that I had hidden something, or cleaned up and moved it, yell and shout actually, and once I focused,I would tell him where it was, like at a Suburb 30 minutes away, on a counter where he left it...sure enough that was the case... I left my ex-husband, he was emotionally abusive, so yes, there was a connection, yes originally I thought, soul mate, but he was toxic, and when he grabbed my arm tight, i knew it was time to go...I have never looked back, why? Because I spent 7 and a half years trying to bring the niceness, and belief out of him, from all his darkness in his life, without success, I gave my 100% there was nothing more to give, the draining, the abuse, emotionally, verbally and then eventually ever so slight but enough, physically, equals - danger - to yourself, who you are, your strengths and gifts, and also physcially and mentally eventually, why would anyone want to stop being able to be themselves? For someone else? Connection yes, soulmate, no, you simply have a gift that you can share around and as I said, be careful of the dangers in that and whom you are sharing this with...

    It does not mean you have a soulmate, or a child you must nurture, that is the case when there is no danger involved, once danger comes into it, you have to see the connection as another person has your gift.....

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    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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    Well, the news I got was an email saying I would get enough money to do what I had decided I needed to do. After reading it again, I deleted it believing it was a scam. You see I woke up with the feeling something really good was going to happen so it seemed in tune with that. I still have the feeling something good is going to happen and it may turn out to be one for books. It wouldn't be the first time. Every time I try to be specific about the strange life I lead the post will not go through. The pizza story could be seen as coincidence by a skeptic. Ah, the truth is stranger than fiction.
    Last edited by Knebi Coxby; 03-13-2011 at 05:01 AM. Reason: forgot to address comments

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    Thanks for addressing your hope, dream, but you didn't address what I wrote is that denial?
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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