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    I think this is my wife's fault. It's because she is a libra (the scales) ...balance...you get it?!?!?! Hahahaha! I knew someday I'd figure out a way to blame my wife for it!!!!!!!!!! Yay! Y'all helped me figure that out! Hahahahaha! Just joking.

    Fire <~~~heads down the hall to fix the dang lightswitch for the 3rd time this evening.

    LMAO Fire(m) very funny.

    I was thinking though... My husband had a few compulsions, like the fridge had to be cleaned in a certain direction, so that it wouldn't scratch, drove me bonkers, but his were very minimal i tend to feel his was more of "control" how he wanted things done.

    But, thinking how that sucked and really drove me up the wall, do you think that your obsessions and Maz too effects your relationships with your S/O's? To the point where they find it hard to live with?

    I am just thinking because both of you at some point from what i have read, intend to walk away from your marriages. So, I'm wondering if the next person that enters your lives could/would be able to accept these things or always think that they are wrong, doing things the wrong way as you both go back and forward and correct things properly to the way you want it done?

    I note that Joy's suggestion and the last poster seeing someone as well may be a way to consider if the above may ring true...

    Just a thought.

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    Ok...
    First... my s/o is crazy about me and I'm crazy about her. She's not perfect and (WAY OBVIOUSLY) neither am I! She has a few of her own issues, so my OCD issues don't get in her way. She's very cool about it and if I mention something to her, she's overwhelmingly accomodative to my issues. Honestly though, I try not to give my OCD "center stage" that much. While I DO accomodate the compulsions, I really try to minimize their importance in my life. Probably most of my issues, my s/o (of 23 years) isn't really totally aware of or she just considers them "the way it is or should be"...as in me aligning all the labels of everything. I think she actually LIKES that. If she puts something up, she will pretty much align it too (with some exceptions). Also, since I'm crazy about my s/o, I don't think I ever said I would leave her (been tempted to before...but never to the extent that I'd really consider it). Overwhelmingly I'm really happy with her.

    Now, to our "picky child" who said that they are picking at their scalp. I too have the TENDENCY to pick at something that is bothering me. Like yourself, I would pick something until it bled and I'd do it over and over again until I had a significant scar. I have BROKEN myself from doing this though! It took a lot of effort though, but I let the rest of my OCD kill it. Hahaha. I have a major cleanliness issue so I just allowed myself to become convinced that it was disgusting and filthy to pick at something. Now I don't really pick at anything (though the temptation is still there).
    Cheers.

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    Sigh. I pick at my cuticles to the point of bleeding and it's really annoying. I think I really only do it when I'm stressed, anxious or avoiding something though. It's bad right now as I avoid even thinking about my masters project that I don't even want to touch.

    My boyfriend picks at acne on his chest/arms/shoulders and it drives me batty! He thinks it's better to get the "gunk" out, which I can at least understand, but he makes the healing process take so much longer by never letting a scab rest. He ends up with loads of tiny scars.

    I'm beginning to think I might have a real anxiety problem that medication might help. It's not crippling but I'm fearful of so many things and it can be agonizing at times. A friend said she got medication that really helped her and she seems to only be at about the same level as me. Maybe when I get a bit more money I'll look into it.
    Well some people say that you shouldn't tempt fate, and for them I can not disagree. But I never learned nothing from playing it safe; I say fate should not tempt me. I take my chances.

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    I get what you mean like...the volume on the tv can never be '24 or 26' it has to be a number ending in '0' or '5'


    or if i tap one hand a certain amount of times, I have to do the same with the other hand

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    shweedhart! You DO get it. Hahahaha. I have TONS of little tweaks like that.
    Cheers.

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