I can see where she's coming from.
There is no equality going on... Time being taken out to make her feel just as important.
Whilst this other girl has a huge TV in her room, your daughter doesn't, she has painted her room and no one offered your daughter, "do you want to paint yours too?"...
It may not be so much of what she has, but what your daughter doesn't have and how she feels about that, that she is not being treated equal in anyway.
The weeing worries me, because I can't see that as being laziness, maybe further attention seeking? Maybe, she has a problem ( weak bladder), maybe she cries herself to sleep and wets her bed and hides it and it continues in daylight sometimes, this part you have to get to the bottom of, it's not healthy for her.
I think your ex has to "share" with his kids and make them feel important, offer them to choose paint to paint their room, change it around as well, find a cheap TV and put it in her room ,those types of things, make it all more equal.
Just my thoughts.
CW



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