Can't have kids?

robinson88 · 10-27-2009, 11:56 AM

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and having sex for 2. Weare monogomaous and we no longer use protection.I have had sex w/ him numerous times w/ no condom, but no baby! What if I can't get pregnant? I'm nervous he wants a bby eventually and I do a well but what if thre is no way that I can..I'm sooo nervous

lullaby Mom · 11-06-2009, 04:06 PM

Robinson88,
I can tell you that I have been in that position. I how ever have P.C.O.D. and had to take a simple pill called Clomid to get pregnant with both of my children so far. I would first ask your self if you have regular menstrual cycles? Is there a family history of having trouble to get pregnant? I didn't have a regular period and I also had a family history so I was prepared for having troubles. If you answer yes to either one I would consult your O.B.Y.N. I would recommend getting on a prenatal vitamin even if you are not pregnant yet.
Don't give up and start thinking you can't till you get checked by your Dr. There is alot out there to help women achieve the dream of being a mother.
Wish you the best.

**WildChild** · 11-06-2009, 04:12 PM

By all means go on ahead and get checked but having unprotected sex and wanting a baby "eventually" don't quite go together. Discuss it with him so you are both on the same page with this?

10-27-2009, 11:56 AM	#1
robinson88 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 7	Can't have kids? My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and having sex for 2. Weare monogomaous and we no longer use protection.I have had sex w/ him numerous times w/ no condom, but no baby! What if I can't get pregnant? I'm nervous he wants a bby eventually and I do a well but what if thre is no way that I can..I'm sooo nervous

11-06-2009, 04:12 PM	#3
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,223 Blog Entries: 5	By all means go on ahead and get checked but having unprotected sex and wanting a baby "eventually" don't quite go together. Discuss it with him so you are both on the same page with this? __________________ We can only learn to love by loving. Iris Mudoch, British writer

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11-06-2009, 04:06 PM	#2
lullaby Mom Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 12	Robinson88, I can tell you that I have been in that position. I how ever have P.C.O.D. and had to take a simple pill called Clomid to get pregnant with both of my children so far. I would first ask your self if you have regular menstrual cycles? Is there a family history of having trouble to get pregnant? I didn't have a regular period and I also had a family history so I was prepared for having troubles. If you answer yes to either one I would consult your O.B.Y.N. I would recommend getting on a prenatal vitamin even if you are not pregnant yet. Don't give up and start thinking you can't till you get checked by your Dr. There is alot out there to help women achieve the dream of being a mother. Wish you the best.