I have identical twin girls, 9 months old. One is happy almost all the time, very pleasant and playful. The other twin is fussy, whiny, and cries constantly! I mean constantly. I know this is not normal. We have an appointment with their Ped. on the 20th of May but I am looking to see if anyone else has gone through this before with their baby.
Our fussy baby is also extremely jealous already, doesn't like when I feed our other baby, bathe her, hold her, etc. She cries when her twin even touches her and does not want to play with her at all. We started Gymboree classes last week and all the babies were having fun... except for my fussy twin. I feel bad for her and I am becoming very, very worried about her. She's very anxious which I know is normal for her age but the constant fussing and crying, and extreme jealousy is not. They were born a month early but have both been early reaching their milestones, both started saying several words at 7 months old, make eye contact, love to snuggle, crawl, stand, etc so I don't think it's anything like Autism. I am about to go insane from the constant fussing I'm really worried!... anyone out there that has gone through this, what was your solution???