Mama Drama!!! Im freaking out i need advice!

**stariana** · 03-14-2011 12:09 PM

infinite - glad my story helped you. I hate reliving all of that in my mind, because to this day, I still can't believe all I went through, but yeah, I did. If sharing helps someone to go forward with their eyes wide open, then I am glad it happened to me, so I could help you. And thank you for your kind words. Back then, I would wake up and say to myself, "Well, what's gonna happen today?" I faced it all, not knowing the consequences of my actions would last a lifetime. I was blind by circumstances, and took each day as it came. Now, now that I am away from my ex-husband, and dealing with life on life's terms without the stress of someone else's problems, I see how many, many things could have gone differently if I had only trusted my instinct. I let fear control me for a very, very, very long time. Your child deserves more, it deserves love. Don't depend on someone else to fulfill you. You never know how strong you are, until you have to be.

**infinitlove91** · 03-14-2011 12:36 PM

Thank you sooo much and i meant everything i said. Your right that we get blinded every once in a while. But women just care to much :P we cant help it, Its human nature. In the end we will succeed and accomplish more than men. We go through pregnancy, give life to a vulnerable human being and give them our patience, attention, and support to be on their own one day. Its been a couple of days.

I havent cried, not even felt the need to shed a little tear. I realize that with him i was happy, but knowing i can do things on my own and make up for his mistake and loss makes me feel like wonder-woman

Things might get hard a long the way but that wont stop me. Ill keep going no matter how low i have to crawl. Theres more to life than a relationship with another man. Family, friends. Ill meet that one guy that will sweep me off of my feet, not now, but I'm in no hurry to risk my heart for someone that might not last forever. I've got my daughter coming in 5 weeks maybe less. Im sure the feeling will be dramatic with happiness, relief, and all of the above. I might not know what im suppose to do. But ill get there...one way or another.

**Beautiful Disaster** · 03-14-2011 01:14 PM

Hate that I somehow missed this thread when it was first posted, but delighted to see that you've gotten some excellent advice and are doing better. Keep your head high, you're getting ready to be a mom and experience a gift that is unlike ANYTHING else in this world (from what I hear

). If you truly focus on this little one, who will love you and need you as a provider, a role model, a teacher, a protector.....then you'll be just fine. Relationships will come and go. There are few guarantees in life. Focus on you and your little one, and the rest will work itself out in time.

**infinitlove91** · 03-14-2011 07:59 PM

Originally Posted by Beautiful Disaster

Hate that I somehow missed this thread when it was first posted, but delighted to see that you've gotten some excellent advice and are doing better. Keep your head high, you're getting ready to be a mom and experience a gift that is unlike ANYTHING else in this world (from what I hear

). If you truly focus on this little one, who will love you and need you as a provider, a role model, a teacher, a protector.....then you'll be just fine. Relationships will come and go. There are few guarantees in life. Focus on you and your little one, and the rest will work itself out in time.

Beautiful Disaster; its ok if you missed this thread. And im glad you took the time to give me advice as well and more ways to look at my situation in a good way. I will admit im scared of the responsibilities, i guess ill just have to taste my own medicine that i gave my mom one day :P

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