hey! sorry I realize i am younger and not a mother but maybe I can help seeing as she is just 4 years younger.
I am still quite messy but I was ALOT worse! at her age I hated bathing and i live with my grandfather. He would actually bath me. he bathed me up until I told him I was capable of doing it myself which was about 11. buy nice smelling stuff. Maybe if a person her age tells her she smells bad. I occasionally leave my panties on the floor but if anyone my age is coming to visit i pick them up quickly.
Have her invite friends round and tell her to pick panties up and whatever else is around. If she doesnt she is going to be embarrased and maybe in the future she will do so.
Or just ignore it. Don't make her bath. don't clean up after her. just leave it all. tell the rest of the family to do so to.
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