Miya

We (as in everyone) do choose whether or not to succumb to it however. I've never really given a care to what societies think is good or bad (an advantage I suppose to living in multiple cultures and countries all my life). I also don't really choose to read the mags or what the cheezy shows. My outlook is that I was happy by myself and am happy with my DH but that's because I chose to share my life with someone who also saw me as just me. He went out of his way to pursue me and the hours of conversation we all have when we meet a guy, he and I still have even after marriage.

Of course there are times when we both use our sexuality to please each other but aside from that we see each other as people first and anything else is just bedroom fun.

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Miya

Of course I'm also one who swore that if the right person didn't come along I'd eventually end up in a monastery where I could spend my time in meditation and making the most of every precious moment. A bit different than most women over here (and men for that matter).

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Hopeless Dork

It depends on the man, some could care less about breasts. Just look at surveys on what body part turns them on the most, or what they physically look for in a woman... breasts are not a concern for a large percentage.

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LanaBear

Completely agree! If you want them, go get them, more power to you. If you don't, then don't, more power to you as well. But at the end of the day, do it for no one other than YOURSELF!

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sourpuss

I agree. Not one of my guy friends have ever said that they don't like them or that they think they are tacky or whatever. I really don't think people care.

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Tex

My preference as a guy is small and real over big and fake. Like someone else already said, be happy with what you have. I think the real problem is not the women with small breasts but the idiots that make fun of them.

But I'm a guy, and I won't ever be able to relate to what it's like to have small boobs. I won't ever feel the same sadness when looking in the mirror or when somebody points and laughs at me. I can only try to understand why women have implants or other types of surgeries.

Not all women that want to have bigger breasts are whoring for attention. Some just want the ridicule to stop. Others want to do it for themselves, regardless of what anybody else says or thinks.

One of my friends just spent several thousand on an 'upgrade.' She's never had anyone made fun of her and she's never had a boyfriend complain. She's generally not lacking in confidence either. It's just that her vision of her perfect self has always included bigger, fuller breasts. Who am I to say that it's stupid?

So while I prefer real over fake, I'm not going to think any less of someone that's gotten implants either.

sallyskellington

just sayin don't think most men mind if there fake or reaL as long as the get to see um

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Tex

Most men don't mind the size either as long as they get to see 'em.

'All I want is a beer and to see sumthin nekkid!' - Jeff Foxworthy

sallyskellington

see now that for some reason I can't comprehend lol.

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OhThereYouAre

Ding ding ding ding ding.

If you don't like the way it looks, fits or what it stands for, simply don't buy it.

Now pardon me, i'm going to go read the "what's in your purse thread" and read about all the designer purses filled with cosmetics.

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