Thread: Do men respect fake breasts?

My breasts are two totally different sizes and have been since they've arrived. My left one is a full B and my right is an A. I struggled for a while during adolescence and my teen years, worrying if anyone could notice and what guys would think when they saw me in the nude. I wanted nothing more than to have two perky and symmetrical boobs.

Today, I really couldn't care less. I was never one for clothes that show the cleave and I've learned that my chest does not determine nor detract from my character. It's all about being confident with what you have. Though there are occasions where I wish I was symmetrical, as the larger one can be quite bothersome while running.

I absolutely support women getting breast augmentations, though I would never get one myself. I'm not sure I'm comfortable with electing to go under the knife when it's not a life-saving matter. But if you want it, go for it!

And, bonus, my current boyfriend thinks my mismatched ta-ta's are kind of cute. He says it's like having sex with two different women. Ha! I guess variety is the spice of life!

I have a bunch of friends that have gotten implants. I never really liked the implant, but I loved the self confidence it gave them so I wholeheartedly support them. Also, not all women get implants to increase size, in fact all of my friends got them because they were happy with the way they looked, then had a kid and wanted their old look back. To call these women shallow would be the same as calling some one shallow for going to the gym to loose the 10lbs the put on over thanksgiving, the ignorance of some men embarrasses me.

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

I did it for how I feel about me when I look in the mirror...

Girls that get them, for whatever reason are not pathetic. Guys that treat (positively OR negatively) girls differently because of their breast size... (whether real or fake, small or big) are whats pathetic :P

You hit it exactly, although maybe "shallow" is a better description than merely pathetic, as in the OP who thinks only strippers would get implants.
I'll bet the far more popular plastic surgery, if it were available, would be the one that made men's (or "boy's" lol) penises larger!
There'd be waiting lines for that, and you wouldn't hear any more comments about how breast implants were "shallow," or how many starving africans you could feed for the price, etc.

As it is, it's just about self-esteem and self-confidence, and if it helps those, it's worth it.

Do men treat me any differently, was your question. By and large, Yes. I get a lot more attention than I did before, men hit on me more and "act" more nice.

That's interesting, but says something nice about men - for a change!

From my own standpoint, I think men are hard-wired to notice women with larger breasts; you can't keep from turning your head to look! But it does NOT (or should not!) mean that you treat a woman with any less respect or dignity if she is more well-endowed!

- TR

Originally Posted by sudonimity

...the ignorance of some men embarrasses me.

As it does me.

(more so when it's my own, of course...)

- TR

once they come to know they 're fake...then they dont!

This is a difficult one for me. My sister used to have fried eggs for breasts when she lost weight. In some cases, where's there's no femininity I'd say the girl/woman to have enlargement. I don't have a problem with any woman wanting enlargement but I prefer it if they haven't . I prefer natural. I think what is worrying is the increasing number of young girls who think that a 34c is too small and therefore they need enlargement. My partner is small but very feminine.

Hello ladies, I would NEVER join a women's forum unless it was absolutely necessary. First, let me tell you that I am a straight male and I really love women. All sizes, shapes, colors and weights. Having said that, it seems that the quest of most straight men these days is to find women who have had NO "work done" on them. There are several reasons for that, but the most compelling reason is that it says that the woman who gets plastic surgery for cosmetic reasons is INSECURE. I am not in the minority of men who believe this either.

Men who are attracted to a woman's breast area instead of her personality or overall package tend to be shallow themselves, and are usually younger guys who arent quite mature. Lets use an analogy: If you are interested in a guy because you notice quite a bulge in his pants and then you get with him and when he gets undressed, you see that the bulge was really a fake prosthetic put there to fool you. Thats how I feel when I get with a woman and then upon grabbing her breasts, I feel that telltale implant in there. By then, we have already been past first base, second base and third base. But at that point, Im just wanting to leave the stadium. Its a COMPLETE turn off to many many men, as is other implant surgery like silicone lip injections and other body implants like buttocks.

Believe me, if you feel that your breasts are too small, you should opt for something less drastic (and dangerous) as implants. I believe most small chested women think that their small breasts wont attract men. Well, they wont attract SHALLOW men, but the men worth having wont be judging the whole you by your breast size. But they WILL judge you if you have obvious implants. They will be thinking "There goes ANOTHER fake boobed bimbo, better avoid her because she is probably shallow and high maintenance". Trust me, its true.

Why did I join? Well, not 30 minutes ago, I broke up with my girlfriend because she told me that she was planning to get lip injections. When I complained, she said "Well, my implants turned out alright". Well, I told her in the beginning that her breasts were not her most beautiful asset and that her personality was her most beautiful asset, she seemed almost hurt that I didnt just LOVE her fake boobs as much as she did. I got to the point where I no longer wanted to hold them. The lip injection thing put things over the edge for me.

Take it from a guy, PLEASE...no more fake breasts!