Thegoodman

As a young man I find it difficult to respect women who have gotten implants. I know that there are a million reasons why women get them, I just can't get past the false sense of confidence they provide. I am definitely quick to judge, so I am not completely free of fault in this, but I feel like girls with implants are just shallow. To spend that kind of money just to have guys stare at you more seems pathetic to me. In my mind, girls with implants are the same as a stripper, more sad than sexy.

To you who have gotten implants, how do you feel about the way people treat you before and after you have gotten them?

Kakie

i don't have implants myself, but i thought i'd say that i have nothing against implants, or people who have them. i don't respect them any less for having them. i think lots of people get them to increase their self confidence and make themselves feel better about themselves and so good for them. if they want to do that then thats fine. there are some people who do get them for reasons that i consider quite shallow, but then its their body and their life so i dont respect them any less for this.
if i had the money and wasn't so scared of surgery/negative side effects then i wouldn't think twice about having implants myself.

Nats

I dont have any myself but a very close friend of mine just recently got a pair - She's happier, more confident in herself and doesnt hesitate to mention that they are in fact enhanced when asked. She was so painfully shy and self-conscious before, Im actually glad she went ahead and got them. And she's been going out frequently, with dates and with friends, and I have not seen or heard about anyone who has said anything negative about them to her, if they managed to figure out that they were enhanced.

I think if it helps boost one's confidence in themselves, and they can afford to get it done right, then you should go ahead.

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Kallygirlie

I don't have them, I am naturally large chested. My cousin on the other hand did get them. I think i just depends on the kind of girl you are speaking of. If the girl went from an a cup to a double d then yeah its hard to respect that. I dont respect women who have them and you can tell very clearly that they are fake and they flaunt it. Chest hanging out and all. Now my cousin was a very small a cup. She was married and felt very low about herself so she talked to her husband and she went and got a small impant to a full B cup. she looks very natural and still covers up herself like a normal respectable women. I know she has them and I never really sit and think about it because she carries herself respectfully. I think you might have a problem with women who get them just to have them hanging out all over the place

Livelaughlove

Knowing why women alter there appearance and understanding why women do it ARE TWO VERY DIFFERENT THINGS!

With all do respect I think you dont know why women do it or understand.

Women do many things to alter there appearance to seem more sexual, because they know men respond to it.

They wax there eyebrows to seem more vulnerable
They tan to seem more healthy
They wear lipstick and blush to imitate orgasm blood rushing to certain body parts
They wear push up bras to seem more busty

I think the fact that your extremely uneducated to the women species is the reason of your resentment.

I question if you even have had a girlfriend?

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Hopeless Dork

I got mine a couple years ago... and my reasons were that I've had a kid, hit 30... AND lost a bunch of weight... My body was in the shape I wanted for so long and worked so hard to achieve but my breasts did not reflect the improvement to the rest of me.. and no amount of diet or exercise would change them.

Yes, it may seem shallow... why not just accept it and live with breasts I was unhappy with. I didn't do it for looks from men... I did it for how I feel about me when I look in the mirror. I don't regret them and I am much happier with myself.. and thats what matters.

Girls that get them, for whatever reason are not pathetic. Guys that treat (positively OR negetively) girls differently because of their breast size... (whether real or fake, small or big) are whats pathetic :P

Do men treat me any differently, was your question. By and large, Yes. I get a lot more attention than I did before, men hit on me more and "act" more nice.

My boyfriend loves me for who I am, he doesn't care that my breasts aren't real. If they make me happy they make him happy.

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buddacup

Hi, I am considering breast enhancement also and wondered how your were working out for you? Are they comfortable? Has there been any leakage and pain? I am worried about those types of things....and if the doctor I get does a botched up job and they look awful.

Thanks for your reply.
Buddacup

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I have to say Thegoodman, I agree with LLL and all of his comments...

It takes understanding of what a woman is all about and I don't think that you get that as a young man.

You see purely "false" as exactly that, rather even a simple thing such as "choice", "priogrative", or the loss of a breast due to cancer, or disfigurement due to childbirth, or severe weight loss that can not be replaced, or even a simple thing such as pain and suffering over being teased all their life by men whom like to put women down for what they class as short falls. Have you seen your mates drive an old truck, and then one that drives a nice truck, expensive one? How do you react to the one that is poor?


Your entitled to your opinion.
You are judgemental in your thoughts however...

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I wanted to ad.. that it's great that you acknowledge this, stated this and therefore, your question was honest... these are your thoughts.

I hope you can see that with everything in life, sometimes, there are reasons beyond what you are thinking, the way you are thinking......

The ladies have answered you well with their thoughts....

CW

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sarahberra

I think most men don't like fake breasts unless they really look natural. My husband says when he can tell that a womans breasts are fake it just triggers something different in him and he thinks of plastic. My breasts are med sized and they have dropped and changed since breast feeding. I wear a D cup now, but I am also 6 feet tall and large frame. I did love having DD when I was nursing though. Yet, I don't think my husband would ever let me change anything about them. I would like a laser lift to make them more perky again, but he is very skeptical about it and he likes me the way I am. If only doctors could do a better job making them look more natural and un detectable-then I think more men would like implants. There must be other ways to enchance breasts.

WildChild

How about just loving what you have?

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