My girlfriend has small boobs but they are lovely. They are feminine,like her, and natural and I love touching them. I wouldn't swap them for a large breasted version. The shape is important too. When breasts are really huge they can lose shape, but when they are smaller they can be perfectly rounded! (I should know I've seen thousands)
The only person that counts is YOU and then if, your boyfriend is also loving you for you, why look ahead?
There is no-one else to worry about, that's how you get your re-assurance.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
Reading back through this, the OP hasn't been around for a while but this subject comes up over and over. Looking back at past fashion in the western world at least, there have been repeated cycles of the levels of breast emphasis. At times women have quite literally had them fully exposed or completely squashed down and bound to appear flat chested.
I'm fairly small busted and I guess I'm fortunate that I grew up before all the mass media bombarment of artificially enhanced women and that during my childhood Twiggy was a fashion setter. Back in the 20s the flappers went (gasp) corset free and having a fairly boyish figure was the fashion. After generations of women encased in dozens of yards of fabric from head to toe, women setting their bodies free and showing arms and legs was a down right giddy change.
The whole boob size thing has never really bothered me. I've never lacked for male attention, at times have had far more of it than I wanted. I can go braless comfortably.
The one thing that really bothers me is that in my younger days finding attractive bras that fit wasn't hard to do but now it's gotten very difficult. They are all wired and over padded. The assumption seems to be that if you are under a C you will want to push up, squeeze in and pad up to at least the appearance of a C cup. If the assumption is that you are doing so to attract a man, if bigger boobs are an issue, well then, where are you? At some point he's going to find out exactly what you've got. What you see is what you get, has always been my thing. At 50+ that attitude has served me pretty well so far.
Don't buy the marketing hype! They are experts at creating and feeding insecurities in order to sell products. That is ALL it's about. Having pretty completely underminded women's sense of self worth and value, they are now hitting men full force with penis size, hair transplants and even make up. Good grief! The best thing we can do is laugh at them and refuse their offerings.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
Well, I can only speak from experience. I have always been naturally well-endowed and the fellas like it. But my friend isn't, at all, and the men love her. Since I write erotic fiction, I have spoken with many men about sexuality and the concensus is: Boobs are great - no matter the size. But that said, the lovely, full ones seem to capture their eyes (or appeal to something genetic). Then again, you see lots of lean, leggy model types that have men crawling all over them. It's more a chemical attraction than a physical one in the long run. What YOU should really be concerned about, though, is this. Will you feel like you compromised yourself in order to appeal to certain men? Will you feel that the augmented YOU ...IS....You? Don't make a decision based on what everyone else has, does or wants. Know yourself. If you want bigger boobs to feel happy about yourself, go for it. If you want bigger boobs to catch the eyes of every Tom or Hairy, maybe you should reconsider what you want out of life first. Do you want a long line of affairs or a meaningful relationship? The latter would be more based on chemistry and personality, the former on pure physical attraction. Neither is WRONG - just what is more right for you?
In this time many people to show attractive looks good they do plastic surgery. It is not good for health. We should not doing plastic surgery.
I'd wait if u can. I was set on getting them when I was your age then they grew all by themselvesif u can't afford them and your bf loves u all the same maybe look at some councilling to assess any confidence issues that may stem from elsewhere. Small boobs are sexy I think shape is more important than size but u couldn't tell me that at 21.
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