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Old 01-09-2008, 07:00 PM
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Unhappy advice please on breast enlargment!!!

hi im 19 and i was taking breast actives for my breast!!im A cup still since i was in high school i been wearing padded bras all my life till now!! and im tired of it! so i have decided to make my boobs bigger to a C cup..but my problem is that my husband wont understand it! i told him it was for myself to feel better...how would you suggest to make him understand...i have taugh about it since high school of going to the surgury.!if he dosent understand should i leave him or whatdo u suggest?
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hey 24glenda,
well let me tell you i have been small chested all my life also and in high school i didn't even sport a bra that's how flat chested i was. well i'm now 38 and i have finally achieved a B cup and that was after having 3 kids and nursing them and also i have gained some weight over the years. i also have considered getting them enlarged on many ocasions. well i don't think you should go as far as leaving your hubby over this. in my opinion i think maybe your hubby might have an insecurity about this. he might think that other men will be looking at you or you would be considered more desirable. you might get more attention in a way that might be upsetting to your husband. ask your husband what his concerns he has about this. tell him to be honest about his feelings. maybe twist it around a little to put it in perspective like ask him "what if your penis is a size that is not desirable to him or he is unhappy with it's size and there is a simple proceedure he could do to help him have better self esteem about it" something along those lines. well good luck with this and i wish i had a better solution for you........
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thank you for your respond but i ask him today and you were right he said that he is afraid of me getting more attention...but is not lke im going to show them of..i like dressing decently you know but he still insist...of me not gettng them.



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thank you for your respond but i ask him today and you were right he said that he is afraid of me getting more attention...but is not lke im going to show them of..i like dressing decently you know but he still insist...of me not gettng them.



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i had a funny feeling that might of been his concern with you getting the surgery done. like you say you dress decently and they are not for show and tell just for you to feel better about yourself. i say it is your right to alter your body in a way that makes you feel good about yourself. as your hubby he should be supportive in your decisions that you decide to make. it's like your not doing something self desrtuctive or something that is going to be detremental to someone elses life your just getting a boob job for goodness sakes. also they are for his pleasure to. my hubby is a boob man and if we had the means he would let me get mine done because he would enjoy them as much as i would. well i hope everything works out for you in the long run. also remember you are beautiful just the way your made right now but i do understand the reasons why you want to have the proceedure done.
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