I think your being a bit strong, our relationship is going good, just because I have had to correct her a few times, it doesnt make me a bad man, I have been a good husband, have always brought home the bacon and put a roof over there heads, I would never hurt my child. We have been through a lot, but I feel that she has learned from her mistakes, I however have not made many apart from when I slept with her best friend, but that was the whisky and not really me.

I have stopped my wife from using the PC for week so she can get back up to date on her house duties.

I think you need to wake the up and live in the real world.

What's the real world, deer hunter?

Your are a good husband: -

OK: -

you've slept with her best friend,
hit your wife in the eye with a vodka bottle,
stopped her using a PC, so she can clean your house,
made her go out and get a job to pay for a correction on her virgina that you hate and have made her feel ugly over, what else? Um...

You obviously feel the necessity to "control" your wife, her life and all that surrounds making all of her decisions in life for her.

This is how you see life, not the "real world", the real world comprises of individuals that join and unite as one in marriage, but have their own identity, personality and work together for things in life.

That's the real world.

Perhaps your father was controlling, you grew up in that environment or just perhaps, that's you view on how to have a wife, a bit like a puppy, teaching it to "sit", "stay", "roll over", now you've been good we'll go for a walk...

Just my opinion.

People like this one individual just make me sick. You dont treat anyone like that, you dont even treat wild animals like that. That is very sick and cruel and disgusting, how could anyone do such a thing to any person, let alone a woman. Abusive Narcissistic individuals are the most disgusting people on the planet and they are the ones who should be abused, they should not be allowed to abuse anyone, to manipulate someone into thinking they love them, to control them, to endanger the life of anyone.

I was a while away from the computer and I got to be a better woman for my husband!
Doing things in the house isn't that bad.
Some things need to be done!
Now I take the thrash out and so on.
I do my duties.
And our live has improved!

I have a man that has shown me how to be a woman!

Say What????????

And who collects your garbage from the streets? A man or a woman?

dear me.

Wow!

You better wake up!

This behavior of men usually grows into patterns of physical and/or emotional abuse!
women are often told to "feed their husband’s egos." Usually, it is in essence adding fuel to the fire. The egos of men are often fed so well by ignorant, submissive wives, that their husbands have become overweight, angry, savage beasts. Men who are overweight with an inflated ego, greedy for power and control. It is now time that wives put their husband ego on a diet, a diet of humility and compassion.

Well said, all be it a tad late, seeing as he has already hit her with a Vodka bottle in the eye, and has told her her parts are ugly, there's two physical and emotional abuses right there to start with....

CW