Vagina issues

**Deer_hunter** · 07-17-2008 11:30 AM

Originally Posted by miffed23

Are you for real??

This has got to be wind up?

I dont know whether to laugh or cry.

As much as i dont like to turn my back on a problem (that obviously needs sorting) im going to, as youre not willing to seek anyones help.

If this is a real situation - get the f*ck out of it, for your daughters sake. Next thing you know, he will be hitting her in the face for saying the wrong words, doing the wrong things. Im not even going to apologise for the way im being....as i feel you need to wake up and realise this isnt what a relationship is.

I think your being a bit strong, our relationship is going good, just because I have had to correct her a few times, it doesnt make me a bad man, I have been a good husband, have always brought home the bacon and put a roof over there heads, I would never hurt my child. We have been through a lot, but I feel that she has learned from her mistakes, I however have not made many apart from when I slept with her best friend, but that was the whisky and not really me.

I have stopped my wife from using the PC for week so she can get back up to date on her house duties.

I think you need to wake the up and live in the real world.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-17-2008 05:20 PM

Originally Posted by Deer_hunter

I think your being a bit strong, our relationship is going good, just because I have had to correct her a few times, it doesnt make me a bad man, I have been a good husband, have always brought home the bacon and put a roof over there heads, I would never hurt my child. We have been through a lot, but I feel that she has learned from her mistakes, I however have not made many apart from when I slept with her best friend, but that was the whisky and not really me.

I have stopped my wife from using the PC for week so she can get back up to date on her house duties.

I think you need to wake the up and live in the real world.

What's the real world, deer hunter?

Your are a good husband: -

OK: -

you've slept with her best friend,
hit your wife in the eye with a vodka bottle,
stopped her using a PC, so she can clean your house,
made her go out and get a job to pay for a correction on her virgina that you hate and have made her feel ugly over, what else? Um...

You obviously feel the necessity to "control" your wife, her life and all that surrounds making all of her decisions in life for her.

This is how you see life, not the "real world", the real world comprises of individuals that join and unite as one in marriage, but have their own identity, personality and work together for things in life.

That's the real world.

Perhaps your father was controlling, you grew up in that environment or just perhaps, that's you view on how to have a wife, a bit like a puppy, teaching it to "sit", "stay", "roll over", now you've been good we'll go for a walk...

Just my opinion.

**mariaangel** · 07-17-2008 08:29 PM

People like this one individual just make me sick. You dont treat anyone like that, you dont even treat wild animals like that. That is very sick and cruel and disgusting, how could anyone do such a thing to any person, let alone a woman. Abusive Narcissistic individuals are the most disgusting people on the planet and they are the ones who should be abused, they should not be allowed to abuse anyone, to manipulate someone into thinking they love them, to control them, to endanger the life of anyone.

**Evilyn** · 07-18-2008 01:37 AM

I was a while away from the computer and I got to be a better woman for my husband!
Doing things in the house isn't that bad.
Some things need to be done!
Now I take the thrash out and so on.
I do my duties.
And our live has improved!

I have a man that has shown me how to be a woman!

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-18-2008 03:02 AM

Evilyn
Now I take the trash out and so on.

Evilyn
I have a man that has shown me how to be a woman!

Say What????????

And who collects your garbage from the streets? A man or a woman?

dear me.

**patricias213** · 07-18-2008 03:22 PM

Originally Posted by Evilyn

I was a while away from the computer and I got to be a better woman for my husband!
Doing things in the house isn't that bad.
Some things need to be done!
Now I take the thrash out and so on.
I do my duties.
And our live has improved!

I have a man that has shown me how to be a woman!

Wow!

You better wake up!

This behavior of men usually grows into patterns of physical and/or emotional abuse!
women are often told to "feed their husband’s egos." Usually, it is in essence adding fuel to the fire. The egos of men are often fed so well by ignorant, submissive wives, that their husbands have become overweight, angry, savage beasts. Men who are overweight with an inflated ego, greedy for power and control. It is now time that wives put their husband ego on a diet, a diet of humility and compassion.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-18-2008 03:28 PM

patricia213
This behavior of men usually grows into patterns of physical and/or emotional abuse!

Well said, all be it a tad late, seeing as he has already hit her with a Vodka bottle in the eye, and has told her her parts are ugly, there's two physical and emotional abuses right there to start with....

CW

**Deer_hunter** · 07-19-2008 03:12 AM

Originally Posted by patricias213

Wow!

You better wake up!

This behavior of men usually grows into patterns of physical and/or emotional abuse!
women are often told to "feed their husband’s egos." Usually, it is in essence adding fuel to the fire. The egos of men are often fed so well by ignorant, submissive wives, that their husbands have become overweight, angry, savage beasts. Men who are overweight with an inflated ego, greedy for power and control. It is now time that wives put their husband ego on a diet, a diet of humility and compassion.

I think you have the wrong impression, it doesnt make me feel more of a man when I correct my wife, I only have to correct her once in a while, its not on a daily basis, sometimes she does things that she cant see the error of, so I just have to take it a bit further than a good shouting at. My wife is not submissive I allow her to have her say once my daughter has gone to bed, and any correcting happens once my daughter is asleep. I am quite fit and not fat, I hunt deer and do weight lifting and running so dont make the mistake of calling me a fatty when I'm not, my wife could do with losing about 28 pounds, not if you wanna call someone a fatty then there she is

. Just to add a bit of humour when she brings me my beer I slap her on her fat and say " hey honney, you got more ripples than the alantic ocean there ", we have good times in our house as well as bad times, and we thank the lord above for the sustinance of life.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-19-2008 03:30 AM

Originally Posted by Deer_hunter

I think you have the wrong impression, it doesnt make me feel more of a man when I correct my wife, I only have to correct her once in a while, its not on a daily basis, sometimes she does things that she cant see the error of, so I just have to take it a bit further than a good shouting at. My wife is not submissive I allow her to have her say once my daughter has gone to bed, and any correcting happens once my daughter is asleep. I am quite fit and not fat, I hunt deer and do weight lifting and running so dont make the mistake of calling me a fatty when I'm not, my wife could do with losing about 28 pounds, not if you wanna call someone a fatty then there she is

. Just to add a bit of humour when she brings me my beer I slap her on her fat and say " hey honney, you got more ripples than the alantic ocean there ", we have good times in our house as well as bad times, and we thank the lord above for the sustinance of life.

So your a deer hunter, go figure. Chace them around, until their scared out of their brains, then shoot them.

Oh, that sounds familiar? except it was a bottle.

Love insulting her don't you, she must feel so good about her self, ugly, fat, no wonder "thank the lord" she loves you, you've taken away all confidence.

Why don't you tell her she gorgeous? Can't hurt now can it

And honestly, glad your having fun, but at "your own" expense not ours because we are NOT laughing with you.

If i was a man, i would be ashamed to say i've even written to you, you don't constitute a MAN in my books but hey, that's just my "opinion".

Enjoy the fun of answering, perhaps it would just be best if no one else answers here any more, then you'll have nothing to say to us...

CW

**alar-snackbar** · 07-20-2008 08:46 PM

Originally Posted by Evilyn

I was a while away from the computer and I got to be a better woman for my husband!
Doing things in the house isn't that bad.
Some things need to be done!
Now I take the thrash out and so on.
I do my duties.
And our live has improved!

I have a man that has shown me how to be a woman!

Originally Posted by Deer_hunter

I think you have the wrong impression, it doesnt make me feel more of a man when I correct my wife, I only have to correct her once in a while, its not on a daily basis, sometimes she does things that she cant see the error of, so I just have to take it a bit further than a good shouting at. My wife is not submissive I allow her to have her say once my daughter has gone to bed, and any correcting happens once my daughter is asleep. I am quite fit and not fat, I hunt deer and do weight lifting and running so dont make the mistake of calling me a fatty when I'm not, my wife could do with losing about 28 pounds, not if you wanna call someone a fatty then there she is

. Just to add a bit of humour when she brings me my beer I slap her on her fat and say " hey honney, you got more ripples than the alantic ocean there ", we have good times in our house as well as bad times, and we thank the lord above for the sustinance of life.

oh my,this is unbelievable
i had to sign up just to reply
evilyn-you need to know where the boundaries are.its a mans job to deal with trash and other such heavy jobs.a woman should only worry about cleaning,cooking and your bedroom duties.im sure the other woman on this forum would agree.
get your hubby to put out the trash
and as for you 'deer_hunter'
tough guy-i dont think so buddy.you sound like an ogre.
what has a deer ever done to you.that is disgusting to ever harm any defenceless,harmless creature.
as for the correcting,i hope you know that you should only use reasonable force,and even then only until the correcting has been fully instilled,no more.once they're broken in,you can ease up a bit,
too much can make the milk turn sour
and im glad you only correct when your daughter is asleep,
she should not have to worry about this now,she will have her own husband to punish her in future,that is not for you
please listen to all the great advice these women have given

god bless

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