Vagina issues

Evilyn · 07-01-2008, 08:15 PM

I have really ugly labia....

My inner come way out before my outers and my husband is disgusted by that!

What should I do?

**miffed23** · 07-02-2008, 07:26 AM

I watched a programme on 'embarrasing bodies' and a lady on that had larger inner lips than her outer lips, she had surgery, and it was apparently a simple operation.

However, many women have inner lips of their labia that protrude more so than the outer and dont think twice about it.

It is a personal choice, and seeing that your husband is 'disgusted' by them, i assume its affecting you. Maybe you should tell him that his penis is disgusting and see how that makes him feel.....

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-02-2008, 07:42 AM

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Miffed23
Maybe you should tell him that his penis is disgusting and see how that makes him feel.....

Agreed... Every woman is beautiful...............

CW

**Little** · 07-02-2008, 12:11 PM

Google "large labia" and click over to the image search, making sure there's no filter.
Or you could just take my word for it that there are porn sites dedicated to women with big lips and that you are COMPLETELY normal.
Show your husband those sites; he shouldn't be making you feel badly about yourself when there's nothing wrong with you!

Evilyn · 07-06-2008, 12:27 AM

I'm really embarrased now!

My husband read the replies in my mailbox.
He was a bit drunk though.

And he got real mad about talking with other people about this matter.

He really beat me up.
I'm telling friends that I fell down the stairs because the shame.

What should I do?

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-06-2008, 12:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Evilyn

I'm really embarrased now!

My husband read the replies in my mailbox.
He was a bit drunk though.

And he got real mad about talking with other people about this matter.

He really beat me up.
I'm telling friends that I fell down the stairs because the shame.

What should I do?

Being drunk is "NO EXCUSE"... Tell your friends the truth, and go and report him to the Police and have photographs taken.

Go stay with a friend, or family member now and don't think about it, just go and do it.

There is no shame. You did not do anything wrong, and no man should ever raise his hand to a woman, ever.

If you feel that you may have anything broken, have them take you to a hospital and have yourself checked as well.

Don't feel that just because he is your husband, that you SHOULD NOT go to the Police.

If he has done this before, or even if this is his first time, he will do it again and it may be worse next time.

Just close your Computer down and phone a friend and have them pick you up now.

CW

Evilyn · 07-06-2008, 02:38 AM

That is really going far!

It is a good dad for the kids.
I feel real bad if he got a victim in all this that I caused!

He is a hard-working man with best interrest in hius family.
All that sounds like betrayel.

I really love him.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-06-2008, 02:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Evilyn

That is really going far!

It is a good dad for the kids.
I feel real bad if he got a victim in all this that I caused!

He is a hard-working man with best interrest in hius family.
All that sounds like betrayel.

I really love him.

Then tell a friend, get photos anyway, and don't pose questions then show him answers, i don't believe that is what was being said here precisely, rather that he should not be discusted.. Obviously he did like what he read and i wouldn't want anything to happen again because your here and he walks in.

I imagine he would be angry again. Perhaps you now really need to speak to someone close to you and get their points of view over what happened to you.

He still have no right to hit you... what so ever....

That is not loving someone, alcohol has nothing to do with it.

It is abuse.

Full stop.

It can't hurt for you to trust someone amongst friends and family and talk to them about this..

It's your life as well. And, frankly, you have children, so theirs as well.

CW

**miffed23** · 07-07-2008, 02:00 PM

My god. You were only seeking advice. Its not your fault as to what we replied about your husband.

Im agreeing 110% with Chandlerswish - what she advised is not at all going too far. What he did is going too far.

sarah38 · 07-07-2008, 08:38 PM

hey Evilyn......
take my advice girl... a man who beats you up does not love you. Now he beats you up... next would be the kids... do you really want that?
I was in an abusive relationship for 6 years. Each time he hits me, he cries and apologise profusely and we up having make up sex ...which was great. He will be on his best behaviour for a while ..then the abuse will start again.
it took a lot of courage to finally leave him.
You are the maker of your own destiny, dont let him belittle you dear.
Get help now ! before its too late.

07-01-2008, 08:15 PM	#1
Evilyn Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 8	Vagina issues I have really ugly labia.... My inner come way out before my outers and my husband is disgusted by that! What should I do?

07-02-2008, 07:26 AM	#2
miffed23 December 2008 "Poster of the Month" Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 615 Blog Entries: 4	I watched a programme on 'embarrasing bodies' and a lady on that had larger inner lips than her outer lips, she had surgery, and it was apparently a simple operation. However, many women have inner lips of their labia that protrude more so than the outer and dont think twice about it. It is a personal choice, and seeing that your husband is 'disgusted' by them, i assume its affecting you. Maybe you should tell him that his penis is disgusting and see how that makes him feel..... __________________ "The air of heaven is that which blows between a horses ears"

07-07-2008, 02:00 PM	#9
miffed23 December 2008 "Poster of the Month" Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 615 Blog Entries: 4	My god. You were only seeking advice. Its not your fault as to what we replied about your husband. Im agreeing 110% with Chandlerswish - what she advised is not at all going too far. What he did is going too far. __________________ "The air of heaven is that which blows between a horses ears"

07-07-2008, 08:38 PM	#10
sarah38 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia Posts: 3	Don't mistake love for abuse hey Evilyn...... take my advice girl... a man who beats you up does not love you. Now he beats you up... next would be the kids... do you really want that? I was in an abusive relationship for 6 years. Each time he hits me, he cries and apologise profusely and we up having make up sex ...which was great. He will be on his best behaviour for a while ..then the abuse will start again. it took a lot of courage to finally leave him. You are the maker of your own destiny, dont let him belittle you dear. Get help now ! before its too late.

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07-02-2008, 12:11 PM	#4
Little WH Junior Administrator Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: whjuniorad[at]hotmail[dot]com Posts: 1,559 Blog Entries: 4	Google "large labia" and click over to the image search, making sure there's no filter. Or you could just take my word for it that there are porn sites dedicated to women with big lips and that you are COMPLETELY normal. Show your husband those sites; he shouldn't be making you feel badly about yourself when there's nothing wrong with you!

07-06-2008, 12:27 AM	#5
Evilyn Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 8	I'm really embarrased now! My husband read the replies in my mailbox. He was a bit drunk though. And he got real mad about talking with other people about this matter. He really beat me up. I'm telling friends that I fell down the stairs because the shame. What should I do?

07-06-2008, 02:38 AM	#7
Evilyn Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 8	That is really going far! It is a good dad for the kids. I feel real bad if he got a victim in all this that I caused! He is a hard-working man with best interrest in hius family. All that sounds like betrayel. I really love him.