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About LinkBacksThere are probably some little troublemakers that never had a girlfriend in their life.Originally Posted by InVisib0LGirL
There are probably some little troublemakers that never had a girlfriend in their life.
I think the main problem here is that he is the one wanting you to go and get it done. this needs to be something that you want for you no one else. If he likes the idea and supports you great but don't be pressured into something your not sure about.
I have no problems with boob jobs infact I am seeing a Dr presently to have it done. It was something I have wanted for a long time. My partner wasn't sure at first as he likes me the way I am but is now very excited at the prospect. I think he was a bit worried at first that I was doing it for him but it is something I wanted for me way before we ever met.
I was an althete when younger and trained very hard, didn't have much of a period and I believe my breasts didn't develope to their full potential, that coupled with breast feeding has made me want to freshen things up a bit.
Look into it well though and go to someone good if you do decide this is what you want for YOU.
I have a post under beauty style/plastic surgery 'breast implants', this may answer some questions you have about the procedure as I have really looked into it.
Do what is best for you. tt
Oh boy...hate to be the naysayer here
but I really don't think that they are healthy for you. You are inserting a foreign substance into the body. I am really leery of many of these procedures that insert anything. You may be trading a superficial thing for something that could possibly lead to some sort of immune system problem in the future. I just wonder how many of the women that have gotten these procedures are suffering from something and don't even know why. Just something to think about. I can remember years ago thinking...hmmmmm I'd love to have a breast enhancement. I thought about it posively for years but just never did it. Wow, am I ever glad that I didn't do it. I just feel differently now about how smaller breasts are actually quite acceptable. It's all about our own perceptions I spose. When I think about how close I came to doing that, I say...thank you God. Good luck to you in whatever you decide.
Oh and one of the posters talked about being an athlete. I bet you have a fabulous shape. Just know that not all men are ga ga over large breasts. I visited a forum were many of the men were violently opposed to them.
I think cosmetic surgery is ok. Body image is "valid" right? But I also think the reason to do anything like that has to be your own. In other words if your doing it to feel better about yourself then you have a good reason that will hold up. If you do it for anyone else? Then what happens if it doesn't go exactly right? That person is to blame and your all unhappy.
"Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got." ~ Janis Joplin
If your husband wants you to have your boobs done so badly that he leaves you if you don't do it, then he has some serious issues.
Don't do it. just say no. If your relationship is such that you need a surgons knife to "spice it up" - well, then I think you need to have a careful look at the relationship.
Would he have his equipment augmented if you asked?
If you start with boobs, where does it stop? Hey, "too loose" - oh just a little tuck her and there. Does he have a somewhat big belly? Tell him you want him to get his tummy done.
And not all men love big boobs - to whomever said that. The most important think about boobs is who they are attached to!
PS: (I'm a guy.)
I'm gonna go with the rest of the crowd and say do it for yourself. If YOU want to do it because YOU want it done, then more power to you.
But I wouldn't do something because my girlfriend or my wife asked me to. If they're that superficial, then why'd they get with me in the first place? Right? But that's just me.
OG
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I just want to point out the safety issue
once again. I know that they would have you believe that it's entirely safe to have some foreign object inserted into you but I think if you really looked into it, I would guess that most of them start to exhibit unusual auto immune type disturbances eventually....just not worth it really unless you are disfigured or something and you are doing it to correct some sort of problem? God forbid you do this and something happens to you....would your husband just go on to the next person that would be willing to risk their life to make his fantasy fulfilled? I know that sounds rough but if you break it down......you really don't need this for yourself at all and it's not like it doesn't come with some sort of ugly trade off so just think about whether it's worth it to YOU!
How often do people post here. This post is almost 30 days old and has so little responses.
anyway Onto the topic at hand..
I have to disagree with many of the posters. I dont think plastic surgery is the key to anything.
If you are insecure about your breast then plastic surgery will only give the confidence you seek. It will however give you a short term boost in self confidence and will not have permanent effects other then altering your body. Why not just get your hair done. Seriously I notice women are happiest with themselves when they get a new do.
If your breast are causing back problems. Then i suggest you get it done but if its not for anything medical then why alter your body to please any ONE man.
If the spicing up your love life is the issue then i recommend you read some books on Karma Sutra with your man, as well as sexual techniques. Trust me it does wonders
An old friend of mine once said "What you can't fix, you can feature." Make your breasts a focal point in new lingerie. I guarantee he will pay extra attention.
For goodness sake dont alter what you already have unless its for medical reasons.
Hope this helps
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Nice guys don't finish last, weak guys finish last.
It should say Will NOT give you the confidence you seek. GRR I hate not being able to edit our posts.
live laugh and love
Nice guys don't finish last, weak guys finish last.
That's such a nice sentiment. I hope most men feel that way.
My boyfriend was saying the other day that he can't actually compare other girls to me anymore. Like, he can't look at a girl and determine whether she's hotter than me or not. He actually seemed distressed about this, lol, as if it was such a shocking change in him. He said it was just because he knows me too well now and he can't be objective. I suppose it's a good thing!
I'm personally worried about how my breasts will be after children, as they're fairly small and I'm worried they'll just completely deflate after breastfeeding a couple babes. But I still don't think I'd get plastic surgery if that happened. I'd just work on making other parts of my body super toned and amazing.
Well some people say that you shouldn't tempt fate, and for them I can not disagree. But I never learned nothing from playing it safe; I say fate should not tempt me. I take my chances.
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