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Old 09-24-2008, 01:21 PM
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Hello, I'm Kimberley and I'm currently 17 years old. I would like some advice as I'm worried I may be pregnant.

I stopped taking the pill about 6/7 months ago due to the terrible headaches I was getting. I did, However, carry on using condoms unfortunately during intercourse with my boyfriend the condom split, he hadn't ejaculated and we took it off and put a new one on straight away. I'm aware of pre cum yet I didn't go and get the morning after pill. I had one period afterwards and carried on using protection and never had the same misfortune with protection again.
However, now 4/5 months down the line I haven't had a period since. I've had three pregnancy tests one as soon as I was late, the second a couple of weeks after and finally another a couple of weeks ago. All have been negative, but only the most recent was early morning mid-stream urination.
I've been to the doctors and he isn't really helping all that much he's had me back and too for blood tests for the last month and all has been fine so far but they keep messing up my tests and not doing all the ones he asks for. I have my next set of results in a week or so and my last set was all clear. HOWEVER, he said that blood tests don't show up if you're pregnant or not. I don't know if he means he's not done a test for pregnancy or they just generally can't show that. I've read a few forums telling people to go for blood tests.
I don't think I have any symptoms, but I am piling on weight.

Any suggestions? I'm not in the position to have children yet, I'm not stable enough and start university this time next year. I just don't want to leave it too late. Too recap, I've not had a period since may, the condom split, three negative pregnancy test results.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.
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Old 09-24-2008, 01:24 PM
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I failed to mention the doctor is dismissing that I may be pregnant and the family planning clinic have done the same. They've told me three tests means I can't be pregnant and I shouldn't worry too much until it gets to 6 months. By which would be too late to have a termination. The doctor is currently running blood tests for an under active thyroid and has said if it comes back fine he will refer me to the hospital.
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my mom had the same thing happen she hasn't had a period since Aug but shes getting half positives and they just keep telling her that it means shes not pregnant and to come back in months. never did they do a blood test its a waiting game.i was 17 when i had my daughter now 3 i believe it makes you a stronger person. in my opinion it is selfish to terminate,my mom tried to make me with my first one and i said nope and didn't go to an app that she made . the guy was never around and still isn't, at 18 i got married to an old friend who i fell in love with.... then had 2ND 18 months apart...i went to school to be a medical assistant and worked also.
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Hey im very confused i have been pregnant but sry to say i had a m/c that was very upsetting to me. I got pg in dec. and had the m/c in jan and every since jan i have been having irregular periods but they have always came. But me and my boyfriend are still having unprotected sex since im allergic to condoms we use the pull out method. One day when we were having sex he oulled out and came on my vagina and it was very very close to the hole of the vagina. Now i missed my period and gods knows how many test i took and they came out neg. But im having sore breast and they are getting bigger than before and i felt very sick in the stomach today. As of today 9/24/08 i am 2 wks late wat should i do? HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!
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You may want to see a doctor and get a blood test just to make sure.
Are you trying to get pregnant? Just not preventing? Or do you not want to get pregnant? If you're not wanting to get pregnant then you may want to find a better method than withdrawl.
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Yea i was thinking the same thing. But no i dnt want any kids rite now. But last nite i took another test and it came out positive but this morning i came on my period...lost......wat should i do?
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Old 09-27-2008, 05:51 PM
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love90, are you sure it is your period, and not just some light spotting? You should definitely go to the doctor because if it is a miscarriage, you might need a D&C done. If it isnt a miscarriage, and just normal spotting, you should go to the doctor to confirm and decide from there what you want to do!
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I know its not a miscarriage bc i had 1 b4 nd its nothin like dat.....just a reg period but only lasted 3 days and not very much bleeding on the 2nd or 3rd day. Wat should i do now
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