just feel like giving up on gettin preg... what so help..

**Mrs. Golsbee** · 04-14-2009 03:52 PM

IDK what to do nuthing happening.. i just cant seem to get preg... my husban and i been tryin for like 7/8 months now and still nothing happening... my [.] this month was 4/5 days early... i just dont kno what to do.. i tryed keepin up w/ my ovulation days but nouthing happening... what should i do? help me out

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 04-14-2009 06:04 PM

No one can predict when pregnancy will occur.

I assume that you know that you both are fertile, and so that isn't the problem.

I think when people so desperately want to get pregnant they don't and when they throw in the towel and give up it occurs..

In other words, just like everything in life, as soon as you start stressing, that takes precident on everything, your body deals with that instead of it's job, so to speak.

Enjoy your intimacy instead of looking at it as, doing it purely to have a baby is the only advice i can give you.

CW

**JRegan29** · 04-24-2009 08:38 PM

Keep trying, if it's meant to be it will. We've been trying for 5 1/2 years & nothing. Last year we knew 30+ people that got pregnant & had kids (one of which is my 18 year old sister). Things happen for a reason, you may not know what that reason is yet, but there will be something. If you really want it don't give up.

If you were on bc for a while it's going to take a bit to get it out of your system. You could also be under stress from trying & that doesn't help either. Calm down.

Enjoy being w/your husband. Enjoy the life you have together.

**Iseulda** · 04-26-2009 07:45 AM

8 months is a relatively short time - some people try for years before they get a result - so don't give up. Maybe take a break from trying, though. I don't mean start using birth control again, I mean stop charting your ovulation, stop timing sex to co-incide with what should be fertile periods. Have sex, lots of sex, whenever you like and enjoy it for what it is - if a baby happens as a result great! If not, then you've still had some good intimacy with your partner, not to mention fun.

If you hadn't both had a fertility test then maybe you should think about it. But mainly relax for a bit, don't let it rule your life or your sex life.

**Mrs. Golsbee** · 04-29-2009 06:10 PM

thanks every 1

**amaranthine** · 05-03-2009 12:25 PM

It's interesting to me how so many accidental pregnancies occur, yet someone who wants a baby so badly can have this much trouble...
Life just isn't fair, I suppose.

Anyways, I once read somewhere that the chance of getting pregnant without protection or anything is about 40%, so it'll happen sometime, unless you have fertility issues, in which case you should probably see a doctor about it.
But like everyone else has said, just keep trying. I wish you luck!

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