Thread: 30, no children, and don't want any.

Good topic Jessica, was going to pass but hey, can't miss the opportunity of saying hello to you....

You know I have been where you are at, and you know I am 45 now, and a bit (shhh).

There were cetainly times where I thought, well I don't want to miss out on being a Mother, but I really am not maternal at all and so time went by, and by, and by.

Your still very young and you may change your mind in 5 - 7 years.

If you are young in spirit, age has nothing to do with it, because when your 60 years of age, you'll still be a killer go getter, let's face it...

I never really changed my mind..

It's too expensive,

It's too hard with trying to establish a business, as we do and even if we don't we definately need two wages these days.

And for me at my age, imagine, in the next 5 years or so, I could if I work correctly, retire and see the world, smell the roses, sit by a lake, what ever, off which I would not be able to do if I bought a child into the world, say 5 years ago.

I will say that whilst I am not maternal, I am great with kids, (just like to give them back), but I get on with them really well and spoil them rotten.

We have nieces, nephews, friends children, enough I think to be content.

Sit back and sip your glass of wine after a hard day and smile for now....

If you feel the same in a few years, don't stress, I have never regreted it..

But that's me...

CW