why cant i get pregnant help!!

**24glenda** · 06-01-2009 10:51 PM

hi ladies,

okay im very confused!i been trying to get pregnant for the last 2 months and nothing we been having sexual intercourse 3 times a week to make sure!but nothing happens right know i have my menstrual and i would like to know if there a change for me to get pregnant this time?after of course.?i tried this method before but it didnt work out last month and still not pregnant.is there something wrong with me?please any advice would be appreciated!

**sweetlee** · 06-01-2009 11:55 PM

Hey glenda, why dont you get an ovulation kit at the pharmacy to check the days you ovulate? If you cant, then just take your body tempreture everyday at the same time. The days you ovulate, your temp will be slightly higher than usual. so try extra on those days. But further you should relax, you cant concieve if youre stressed, so take it as it comes otherwise it will just take longer. My husband and i ttc'd for 1 month - but we didnt call it ttc - we just had fun, and a fell pregnant immediately. also make sure you have a healthy diet. fresh fruit and veggies are best, no caffeiene, less junk food, and a walk around the block everyday. good luck - its and adventure!

**Mrs. Golsbee** · 06-07-2009 02:37 PM

i kno what you mean.. me and my husband been trying and nuthing happening.. its been 10 -11 months now.. all i can say is keep tryin cuz really you havent been tryin long nuff.. but i wish ya the best of luck tho...

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**Pam01** · 06-10-2009 02:39 PM

It has been 2 years since we have been trying for a baby and nothing has happened. Everyone says dont worry about it when its going to happen it will happen. I try so hard not to think about it but its in my mind all the time and i get so depressed before my period. I have to be strong. Sometimes i dont even think about it but now i am stressing again. My husband is so understanding he tells me not to worry it takes time for sum couples. We are doing tests and they have been ok so far. Can sum1 help me how not to stress about it..its easy to say.

**WildChild** · 06-10-2009 03:29 PM

You want to use a thermometer for basal temp. We hear so many stories of people who tried and tried and then when they gave up and relaxed it just happened. That happened to my Aunt and Uncle, as soon as they arranged to adopt a baby, she found out she was pregnant and they ended up with 2 little ones 3 months apart - they had lots of fun making up stories when people got to questioning (back when they advised against telling child until they were older)

**LuC** · 06-11-2009 06:59 AM

Hi everyone! I'm 39 and my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for a yr now. About 3 months into to it I started to do a lot of research on what I needed to do to be healthy first that was my main concern. I started taking Folic Acid which is recommended for the first 3 months before getting pregnant. I then started checking to see when I was ovulating and come to find out I ovulate day 10 and 11 of my cycle which is pretty early. After 6 months I went to my GYN and she told me to start taking Prenatal Vitamins (stopped taking the folic Acid) and referred me to a Fertility Doc. It’s now been 3 ½ months that I’ve been seeing him and I found out the reason I’m not getting pregnant is because the opening to my Cervix is very small so the sperm in unable to travel. We just visited the Doc and he has recommended I do FSH (follicle stimulating hormone) shot for 5 days (because of my age I am not producing enough eggs as a 25 yr old does) and we will then go into his office when I ovulate and he will perform an IUI (intrauterine insemination) which is performed by threading a very thin flexible catheter through the cervix and injecting my husbands sperm directly into the uterus. Well, this is my story hopefully it will help some of you reading this. I’ll keep you guys posted one what happens next. God bless and don't give up!

**kathy1962** · 09-15-2009 09:03 PM

24GLENDA I am responding to your post. i was just like you for years wanting a baby. i went to all kind of doctors no help.then one day a lady told me what to get. so i did .less then a month or to i was having a baby boy.i will tell you what to get .looking to here back.http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...lies/smile.gif

**kathy1962** · 09-15-2009 09:08 PM

To all the women that's trying to get pregnant I am responding to your post. i was just like you for years wanting a baby. i went to all kind of doctors no help. Then one day a lady told me what to get so i did less then a month or two i was having a baby boy i will tell you what to get, looking to hear back.

**Jessica10011** · 02-11-2010 11:04 AM

I had a couple of problems also. That's why i couldn't conceive for over 2 years. My doc said i had less than an 8% shot. Can you believe it?

Anyway i did a bit of research and found this site. It made me pregnant within a month.

Anyway, see what you make of it... *Removed outbound link*

Hope it helps u as much as it did me

Jess x