good question nygirl.i also wanna know the answer to that question. My husband and i have only been trying a month and im not pregnant yet so if there's really a way to make by body more fertile i would certainly wanna know too!
My boyfriend and I always have unprotected sex and if i did get pregnant we really wouldn't mind. i have 2 questions ... although almost all of the time i am really stressed out ... how come i don't get pregnant from pre-cum?
and are there things a woman should do to prepare her body to make her more fertile?
good question nygirl.i also wanna know the answer to that question. My husband and i have only been trying a month and im not pregnant yet so if there's really a way to make by body more fertile i would certainly wanna know too!
well I dont know a direct answer but I have to ask does your Mate wear boxers or briefs. it is proven that men who where briefs usually have a lower sperm count because of the lask of good cerculation. If they wear Brief opt for boxers it may increase your chances. good luck on making a baby. I love babies.
no my man doesn't wear briefs he wears boxers. i am just going to visit my doctor and see if anything is wrong.
I am not positve, but pre-cum doesn't carry the amount of sperm that a full ejaculation would carry. Also if you are using any sort of lubricat that may inhibate the sperm from reaching the egg (check out a product called Pro Seed). As far as making your body more fertil, you can start taking prenatle vitimines and cutting out caffeen, alcohol and any unneccesary drugs you may be taking. (this may not increase your fertility, but it will make you healthier and increase your chances of getting pregnant.
My question is, is your boyfriend ok with getting pregnant? if you are talking about pre-cum are you pulling out before the full ejaculation? You may want to discuss this before getting your self pregnant.. I am not a judging person, but I do belived that two parents are much better than one...think about it
Good luck
thanks
and yes he is okay with having a baby. we've talked about it and because he grew up without a father he definitly would want to step up to the plate and be a father.
Each time a man ejaculates, there are thousands of little sperm trying to make their way to the egg. In pre-cum, in most cases, its a very minimal amount of sperm and mostly the lubricant that protects the sperm. So if he is pulling out, you need to ask yourself a couple questions; Are you asking him to pull out? Is pulling out something you have always done? Is pulling out something he does without really talking to you about? If he is pulling out that is a good indication as to what his hopes are for having children. He is more than likely not ready to be having children right now or desireing them. Having children is a life altering thing. It's best to be financially ready because I spent 100 just on diapers for my sister in her first month with her new baby. Do you and yoru boyfriend have a home together. A nice nesting place for you and your baby to grow together? Are you healthy? DO you have any health conditions to think about? There are so many things to think about or consider in becoming a first time parents. Make sure this man you know in and out. You love him have no doubt in your mind you want him to be the father of your children. Some woman are so happy with their new relationships they want to jump into everything from living together to marriage to babies. So before acting on anything let's ask these questions. Good luck to you!
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thanks for taking the time to respond. but as i stated before if i got pregnant my boyfriend and i really wouldn't mind, so it isn't an issue of being ready or not. i was wondering ... curiousity.
I am on the same boat...
I tried with my ex to conceive for 2 years, we didn't seek help because if it happended great! if not we didn't stress it.
Now that I am in a new relationship and have had unprotected sex for 4 months I am beginning to think i was always the one with the problem.
I took a hormonal test on the 3rd day of my period, normal
I did the HSG and apparently everything is normal,
is very frustrating because then I need to know what is wrong with me and I'm not getting any answers,
MY fiance has a kid from a previous relationship, therefore I know it's me.
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