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Moon Lander Champion!Some people do have periods while being pregnant. So it is possible. But, you have had a period since, it was regular and on time. I wouldn't worry about it. Take a test to pacify him if that is what is needed.
What to tell my fiance?
Okay so last month we had sex and as it happens his condom came off and before he came he relized it as he is always afraid that we will have a baby before married ( lol but wont 'wait to have sex) , now he made a big mess all of me and the bed so i was not worried about being pregnent but he was so insistant he ran off to the store at 2am to get that $50 morning after pill thing and so i took that as instructed. He was still nervous and i asked if he wanted me to take a test he said no lets just wait and see what happends but he has been worried about it and last week i had my period wich was normal and on time , still he is worried he was talking like is there such a thing as false periods can i be both pregnent and have a period??
what do i tell him plz i did not take a test but i did not believe that i can have a period and be pregnent am i wrong ?
( we want to have kids we was just hoping to wait a few more years as we are both so busy and are lifes are not stable he is not done with college we have not found that perfect apartment..ect but if i was than it is okay and he would be so over joyed and afraid as he has that normal first time daddy nervesness lol )
Some people do have periods while being pregnant. So it is possible. But, you have had a period since, it was regular and on time. I wouldn't worry about it. Take a test to pacify him if that is what is needed.
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May the fleas of a thousand camels infest the crotch of the person who screws up your day and may their arms be too short to scratch.
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Whoever said anything was possible obviously never tried slamming a revolving door.
thank-you i think i will ask him again if he wants me to wait untill next month or just take a test i dont want to bug him but i dont like him to keep being worried has enough stress, but if i wait till next month and have a regular on time period than that means more than not i am not preggers?
gabby
Yeah - I would think so.
Friendship Prayer
May the fleas of a thousand camels infest the crotch of the person who screws up your day and may their arms be too short to scratch.
Amen
Whoever said anything was possible obviously never tried slamming a revolving door.
GodsAngelBaby,
Even if you were pregnant which i highly doubt you are because you took the morning after pill you would not have a regular period and it would not have been on time. Most women who experience any kind of bleeding during pregnancy is usualy a bit of spotting or they may have some light bleeding for a few days.
I would re-assure your boyfriend that you are NOT pregnant. And maybe you ought to consider going on some time of birth controll if neither of you want a baby just yet.
He pulled out, you took a morning after pill, you got your period. I seriously doubt you guys have anything to worry about
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
Thank-you all for your help, we talked it over and i explained a few things and again i asked if he wanted me to go on birth control he said no and he doesnt mind using condoms and will be more carefull from now on, im not sure why he is so aginst birth control? but i dont mind that he took on this condom responsibility. If we did become preggers before we plan on it , it wont really matter we will love the babie just as much he know's how much i love babies and would love to have one someday
A lot of guys worry about the side effects birth control puts on a womans body. My boyfriend is one of those guys. He feels like he'd rather use a condom then make me have to pump my body full of hormones and put me at risk for things when he could just wear wear protection with no harm done to either of us.Originally Posted by GodsAngelbaby
I am looking into an IUD without hormones though, in a faithful committed relationship having to use condoms every time seems unfair lol. Maybe your guy has the same concerns though about the side effects of BC pills.
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
Yes i was thinking about that he might be worried that if i use birth controll i might get more hormones or get more irritable and i am already overly sensative and all those side-affects that could happen might freak him out and also i think he 'wants this ' job./burden of having to buy them and then use them but he is a really good man wants to be incontrol with that responsibility as we want kids but if we can wait till we are settled down it would be great.
Really you should be using BC. He chokes during sex without any prior agreement or discussion on it and freaks out over the possibility you might get pregnant. This doens't sound like a man who is ready to start a family or even to consider marriage. I really urge you to give this more time before you commit completely.
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