LiLp

[B]Well my boyfriend came home from M.O.S school and you how it gets when you haven't seen eachother in months. Anyway, yesterday morning we were doing the do and later that night he told me he busted in me(I don't rememeber how we came to that convo). I thought he was joking. Maybe just being a jerk and playin a cruel joke but he said it was all honesty. Of course I got a bit mad because I had no clue that happen. We had sex about three times that morning and after the first he told me he couldn't bust anymore. That nothing would happen. well thats when we chose not to use a condom. I wanted to get the plann B pill when I found out but he wouldn't get it unless I was with hiim. We are getting it later today but is there a greater chance it wont work? I can't remember my last cycle but I know it was more then 2 weeks ago. What are the chances of me getting preg?

I love hiim and everything but a lil one I know we aren't ready for and I'm semi against abortion. Plus I'm tryin to join the marine corps and thiis would only postpone it heavily. It would be a very difficult decision. [B]

Katsaly

You should take Plan B ASAP. And you should not delay any more than is absolutely necessary. It should be taken within 72 hours of the incident, and generally, the sooner, the better. After that, it will be weeks before you will be able to find out if you are pregnant, so make sure you take Plan B on time.

CHANDLERS WISH

Second the above poster.

However, will add.. that you can't be that nieve and he can't tell you after the fact, he has to be responsible and so do you, go for birth control and condoms don't risk fate.

CW

__________________
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told

Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!

Register! | Rules/FAQ | Contact Mod

Kallygirlie

I agree with the ladies. I have to add tho, your boyfriend pulled a dirty old trick out of the mans book on how to be a total jerk and get what they want. Don't ever fall for the "theres no way I can cumm now". I've even had a guy say, "oh I just want to feel you without the condom, just let me put it in once". Once turned into him trying to go all out. DENIED!!!! Dont ever do more then what you are comfortable with, no matter what he might say. Then him saying you cant get it unless he is with you. BULL, you are a big girl, go get it and dont delay. IF he complains, let him know that he has no say in it since he's the one that lied.

LanaBear

Ditto to what CW said! You both need to take responsibility. Of course, not seeing each other for a while, things were pound to get hot and heavy quickly, but you should be prepared.

__________________
Sometimes life isn't the party we hoped for, but since we're here, we might as well DANCE!