medstudent88

im not really sure what to write but, heres a go at it.

im 21, a full time xmt student, and married.. and my body is confusing..

back in january of this year we thought we had gotten pregnant but the tests came out negative. i didnt expierience any symptoms of periods or pregnancy for the following month. we went to our doctor, he ran a few tests and all he explained was that it was stress. early may hit and no sign of my period. still no symptoms( 4 1/2 months of no period). then one day i woke up, and not to be gross, but, there was some spotting so i figured it had finally happened.but no, 3 weeks into my "period" and i awoke to find blood all over myself and the bed. i freaked out , my husband freaked out, and i ran to the bathroom horrified and shaken up. we went back to the emergency room, i feared it was a slow miscarriage ( i was clueless) the doctor ran some tests, came back and said that the tests were "inconclusive" but my horomone levels were off the charts. i asked multiple times about a miscarriage ( my sister had 4 of them before finally having my niece) and i was concerned. he didnt give us a direct response but told me bed rest, fluids and no pain meds so i wouldnt bleed more. after 2 days, it ended. then in june i got a light period that lasted 3 days. but from july until present day i havent gotten a period, however, unlike last time, i feel tired all of the time, i have minor cramping for the past 3 weeks, i feel physically exhausted, and i notice its "wet" down there more than usual. ive never expierenced these things before. we took a test and it came up negative, and i took a lab approved HCG test at my school ( im in Xray technologist and lab technician programs) and it came up blank. so now we are waiting for our doctor to set an appointment asap.. i only have my father and my sister in laws are only 15 and 17.. so i dont really have a female i can talk to. so im giving this a shot.. can anyone please offer any advice or anything? we would both really be appreciative!! thank you so much