Rajee

Hi
My next cycle has to come on coming wednesday(Sep 23rd 09). We tried haiving sex yday. My husband said he was not able inject fully and its tight. I am also trying for getting pregnant. My till now i didnt have any symptoms like fatigue,nausea etc.... Since my husband said that the whole is tight and not able to inject i have a doubt whether i am pregnant....

Any idea abt this.....

CHANDLERS WISH

No idea, it's not possible. What will be will be...

You are going to have to wait till the 23rd. More importantly, you have to stop thinking about it, be intimate and love your husband and let it happen when the time is right, as far as the Universe goes... You being "tight" is you not welcoming the "love" rather having sex to have a baby if that makes sense.

Relax.

Enjoy.

Love..

It will happen when it is mean't to.

CW

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Rajee

today morning i got a light watery sticky blood like my period.... so i kept by sanitary pads and tot that i am not pregnant this time. But till afternoon there is no other drops but whenever i urinate i find a the same watery blood drop while wiping in the tissue... I am very confused...... what u say????

CHANDLERS WISH

Going to reply in hope someone else has experienced this and can answer their thoughts.

Watery , sticky , blood, sounds like 1/2 , 1/2... but if you bleed when you urinate only? Is that what you are saying? Go see a Doctor is what I say sweet.

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Miya

Well I haven't experienced it so I'm not much help there but I do agree with you CW that Rajee should see a doctor.

Rajee, namaste, one thing I can think of from what I've heard from others is that it may help after he ejaculates in your to prop your hips up higher and just stay there for a while. Apparently this can help to facilitate fertilization. Someone correct me if I'm wrong about this.

I wish you and your husband the best.

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WildChild

Do get checked. I get a feeling that you are young, fairly new to marriage and sex?

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Miya

Also don't let a cultural hangup about not discussing such things prevent you from talking to a doctor. I'm not sure what part of India you're in but if it's Mumbai, then there are some good female Gyn's near Bandra and Churchgate. (I had to see one while working there a few years ago)

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Rajee

I belong to southern india. I got married last june. As CW said i am new to sex.So only confused.
Today i only had white discharges.... so confused.... is it right time for me to do home pregnancy test??? i have 2 days of missed period.

LanaBear

Yes - if you are two days late, you can test.

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Rajee

Hmm thanks LanaBear.... its really thrilling and exciting to know whether i am pregnant....