gingersnaps2002

Me and my fiance are trying for a baby. I have been off the pill since June and he doesn't use a condom and we have sex nearly every night, but still I'm not pregnant. We haven't told anyone or said it right out that we want one because then we'd end up disappointed when the tests keep coming back neg
I'm not entirely sure how ovulation and all that works, or the best time to have sex. When you are ovulating is that the most fertile time to get pregnant, because after you ovulate and don't get pregnant, you have your period,right? Or is it right before you ovulate the best time?
Sometimes it feels like when we have sex he doesn't go in deep enough so sometimes I'll have him really push harder and then I'll lay there with my legs elevated feeling awkward lol.
Another embarrasing question is that when he ejaculates and pulls out afterwards, it feels like there is a lot of liquid running OUT of me. Now, is this just normal or is he not going deep enough to ejaculate into my cervix?? Please help.
How soon after a missed period can you test and get an accurate reading? I have another thread posted about that.
Thanks! I look forward to learning here!

Kallygirlie

dont get discouraged. It's hard to believe that a women is only has about a 40% chance of becoming pregnant each month. My boyfriend and I have talked alot about having a baby and I've done alot of research about it. One thing I've been told by my doctor is go ahead and start prenatal vitamins, it doesn't make your chances better but they make your body alot more prepared. Having a balanced system is key. Next dont have sex every day. Surprisingly it makes your chances lower. If you waid every other day or so his little soldiers will be alittle more powerful. Also have sex when he first wakes up. Just like when you take a pregnancy test, its more accurate in the morning when everything is contrated, same goes for his little swimmers.

first thing in planning is learning your cycle. Are you regular, is it a 28 day cycle? Start marking your calendar. For a normal 28 day cycle, ovulation accures around day 14. When you are ovulating is the best time to have sex. Check into keeping track of your basal body temp.

As for him ejaculating far enough inside of you. Honestly what gets them in is your liquid. body fluids running out is normal. You sound like you are over worried about it. Calm down, relax and enjoy your partner. Its been proven that a women has a better chance of concieving when she is just happy and relaxed. Stress does nothing but stand in your way.

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Krystal

gingersnaps2002

Before I got on BC I would sometimes go 9 or 10 months without a period when I was a teen. Then when I was 22 or so I would have periods with heavy, extreme bleeding, severe, debilitating cramps and I had to get put on the pill so I could atleast know when a period was coming. I would bleed for 5 or 6 days, stop for 2 then start again, never knowing when it would happen. I'm afraid my cycle is going to revert back to that and I'll have to be kept on the pill or worse just to keep it under control. I have been to the health clinic and everything checked out fine but it was just a normal yearly physical.
I have folic acid, would that help? I have no idea what my normal cycle is. When I was on BC after taking the last active pill my period would typically start 4 days later, sometimes a day or 2 earlier. Once I got off the pill, the first month off it came about the same time, then the second month it was a little late and very light, and now nothing.

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