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Old 10-06-2009, 12:54 AM   #11
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this is arab country. sex without legal marriage here is not allowed.. once you caught by police that you are pregnant, u may get in jail or deport to you own country. in my case, they will get me in jail coz i'm not yet 6 months in my work and have to pay the expenses of my visa before it leads to deportation..
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Old 10-06-2009, 12:57 AM   #12
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Oh I see... I'm not sure what to tell you. I agree with the others that seeing a doctor is really important. It could mean your health. It does mean your health. Especially if you are pregnant. How will you take care of the baby and make sure everything is okay without check ups? I wish I could help but I don't see an answer at this point.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:08 AM   #13
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to the above posters: i am taking care of 5 kids but only 1 of them is from my stomach. in short, the 4 are my adopt. these kids are my brothers.. we don't have father that's why..

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this is an arab country.. sex is prohibited..
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the only way i see myself to a clinic is when i am already in the philippines.. once the doc knows about my situation. after the med exam he will give me to the police..
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I'm sorry.
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you are in a risk situation,did your man knows it?
try to ask him what the best thing to do,
in your case, you have see a doctor before something happen,you have to check the baby and you either..it's dangerous when the baby dead inside.. you'll be poison.
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Don't go to a backyard Dr okay.. please.

This man whom you "state is your husband" but only by the thoughts of your happiness, mye mye is correct, he should be taking care of you in all ways, not just with this but financially, if you went home, how can you do that? Financially?

Why do you stay there?

If you went home, what about the ex-husband who thinks that he has a right to murder you anyway?

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the only way i see myself to a clinic is when i am already in the philippines.. once the doc knows about my situation. after the med exam he will give me to the police..
mye mye is correct dear, you are in a risk situation,

why don't go in your place?(Philippines)

that is your last choice.
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this is a complicated situation.. Nowhere to go. Nobody can support. lol..
last option is going back in the philippine where they can buried me alive..
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this is a complicated situation.. Nowhere to go. Nobody can support. lol..
last option is going back in the philippine where they can bury me alive..
Don't say that. You can always go back home. There is an institution which can help you there. You can go to a church or a pregnancy help center. They will help and see you through. Look it up on the DSWD website.
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