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**mye_mye** · 10-26-2009, 07:31 AM

WC is right,
what ever it is, you are a wife, you can't be with somebody without divorce, still you are in your husband custody,you can't just be happy as you want because there is a law to be followed..what ever we say, sometimes it is unfair.only men have the right to love more than one,..they hurt us, but we can't hurt them.try to talk to your parents to talk to your ex- and convince them.as you have mention they are the one who force you to marry to that man.its your parents fault.and the x of yours.
you don't deserve like that.yeah! you can be called selfish, you only think of yourself, but everybody deserve to be ''happy''
just take care of your baby.and your husband? or boyfriend?

babyangel · 10-26-2009, 06:33 PM

gotcha..

babyangel · 10-26-2009, 06:41 PM

sounds good..anyway,what about your husband?he knows already that you are finally pregnant?,

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-27-2009, 02:26 AM

She has asked that I tell, she thought she had a phantom pregnancy, but is pregnant, It is hard to understand someone's else's language, sorry.

CW

babyangel · 10-27-2009, 02:32 AM

in islam culture, if a man and woman haven't relation and they're will dating outside it will goes bad,specially if something happens both of you will kill.. if parents and relatives deciding you what is right for you to both it will keep you kill ( firing squad )both of you.. those are the islam culture..

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-27-2009, 03:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by babyangel

in islam culture, if a man and woman haven't relation and they're will dating outside it will goes bad,specially if something happens both of you will kill.. if parents and relatives deciding you what is right for you to both it will keep you kill ( firing squad )both of you.. those are the islam culture..

I think we all are so concerned over this but I think if anything at the moment she needs support? I think she knows the danger ..

She needs to get away....

**hello_pitty** · 10-27-2009, 07:31 AM

She should flee to canada or USA. But that would probably be hard considering she needs all this paperwork and money...sigh I feel bad for the girl. One of the reasons I don't believe in religion.

**HALFNOTHING** · 10-28-2009, 10:42 PM

Hi to all posters.. thank for the replies.. i feel good now especially that i'm in safe place..

Quote:

sounds good..anyway,what about your husband?he knows already that you are finally pregnant?,

babyangel, what you mean husband? the x and the new hubby know that i'm preggy. the x has the proof coz he saw my pic in my FS account in the blogs and with the pic that i have a big tummy compare to my tummy before.. that's why i was in danger when i was staying in the UAE coz he knows the address.. Although he can't anything to harm coz we have a marriage contract with my husband, I'm scared for my mother that stays in the Philippines and he can use our cultural law against us. With the consent of my mother to be married to others.. she will suffers than us upon proven that i dont have divorce with the x.

to babyriana, thanks for letting me use your accounts and teach me to use computer when i was there. I miss u girls. regardz to mimi and to the rest of your room. I and the secret are happy being with each other..

funny to tell but we have the same past with baby. though there is little difference.

**mye_mye** · 10-29-2009, 01:05 AM

that's why i was in danger when i was staying in the UAE coz he knows the address.. Although he can't anything to harm coz we have a marriage contract with my husband,

so u mean you are now in safe place?
what about your work?where you staying right now?
nice to hear you're safe to that stupid ex of yours.
are you already married with the new one?i thought he is just your bf.?
just pray for your mother's safety,.

**HALFNOTHING** · 10-29-2009, 01:31 AM

I will and do every day pray for my Mother... Whilst some may not love me, let it be me they seek.

Thank you for your reply, I am lucky, someone believed with me, helped, me that's all.

10-26-2009, 07:31 AM	#51
mye_mye VIP Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 48	WC is right, what ever it is, you are a wife, you can't be with somebody without divorce, still you are in your husband custody,you can't just be happy as you want because there is a law to be followed..what ever we say, sometimes it is unfair.only men have the right to love more than one,..they hurt us, but we can't hurt them.try to talk to your parents to talk to your ex- and convince them.as you have mention they are the one who force you to marry to that man.its your parents fault.and the x of yours. you don't deserve like that.yeah! you can be called selfish, you only think of yourself, but everybody deserve to be ''happy'' just take care of your baby.and your husband? or boyfriend? __________________ ____________ Know yourself and you will win all battles _____________________________

10-27-2009, 02:26 AM	#54
CHANDLERS WISH WH Head Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 12,653 Blog Entries: 8	She has asked that I tell, she thought she had a phantom pregnancy, but is pregnant, It is hard to understand someone's else's language, sorry. CW __________________ Women are Angels And when someone breaks our wings.... We simply continue to fly.........on a broomstick... We are flexible like that .... White Witch. Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 10-27-2009 at 03:17 AM.

10-27-2009, 07:31 AM	#57
hello_pitty Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Saskatchewan, Canada Posts: 270	She should flee to canada or USA. But that would probably be hard considering she needs all this paperwork and money...sigh I feel bad for the girl. One of the reasons I don't believe in religion. __________________ "I might be a little young, but honey I ain't naive" "If it ain't an APBT, it's just a dog"

10-29-2009, 01:05 AM	#59
mye_mye VIP Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 48	that's why i was in danger when i was staying in the UAE coz he knows the address.. Although he can't anything to harm coz we have a marriage contract with my husband, so u mean you are now in safe place? what about your work?where you staying right now? nice to hear you're safe to that stupid ex of yours. are you already married with the new one?i thought he is just your bf.? just pray for your mother's safety,. __________________ ____________ Know yourself and you will win all battles _____________________________

10-29-2009, 01:31 AM	#60
HALFNOTHING Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 164	I will and do every day pray for my Mother... Whilst some may not love me, let it be me they seek. Thank you for your reply, I am lucky, someone believed with me, helped, me that's all. __________________ Can't help it but to love

10-26-2009, 06:33 PM	#52
babyangel Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 7	gotcha..

10-26-2009, 06:41 PM	#53
babyangel Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 7	sounds good..anyway,what about your husband?he knows already that you are finally pregnant?,

10-27-2009, 02:32 AM	#55
babyangel Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 7	in islam culture, if a man and woman haven't relation and they're will dating outside it will goes bad,specially if something happens both of you will kill.. if parents and relatives deciding you what is right for you to both it will keep you kill ( firing squad )both of you.. those are the islam culture..

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